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October 01, 2008
My Prince Charming Turned Out to Be a Devil with Horns
I am a 39 year old single mother of two girls 9 and 14. I am educated, beautiful, successful and have a good job . I met my prince charming online and went on a few dates. In my life I have had mishaps when it comes to men, but this guy was handsome, well educated and he is every woman's dream. I was so excited to finally meet somebody like him, after meeting a couple of free loaders.
He was my dream come true, however my excitement about this prince charming ended when I landed in his bed of hell. My first concern was his unwillingness to use protection, and I insisted that since we hadn't known each other that long, that was the safest thing to do. I asked about his health status and his response was that he was clean and had no diseases. He even offered to show me proof of that status.
During sex, I became concerned when I realized that he had secretly removed the protection; and he told me that he does not like using them.
After this day, I called and told him that I needed to see proof of his HIV status and he said he would send it.
As I was waiting impatiently I noticed that he was a bit different. I called him and told him strongly but politely that I needed to know his status. That was the last day I ever heard from him. He stopped calling me; he never answered my calls nor returned them. I called him at work and he told me not to bother him anymore and to leave him alone.
Six months later I tested positive for HIV. What do I do? Do I sue him? Do I let him do this to other women? Should I sit and accept it as my fate.
I am devastated. I look at my girls and cry because I have betrayed them; I put myself in a compromising situation. What do I tell them?
Posted by yardFlex at October 1, 2008 09:22 AM
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Posted by: Roxie
on October 1, 2008 10:02 AM
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I AM VERY SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR ORDEAL. MAY THE GREAT ALMIGHTY GIVES YOU THE STRENGTH YOU NEED TO GO THROUGH THIS STORM!! JUST REMEMBER....GOD IS ABLE TO TURN THIS AROUND....THE ENEMY MEANT THIS FOR YOUR HARM...BUT GOD WILL TURN THIS OUT TO YOUR GOOD. REMEMBER HE IS A GOD OF MANY NAMES...HE'S JEHOVAH NISSI, HE'S YOUR BANNER...JEHOVAH NISSI IS OUR GOD WHO HAS SECURED YOUR VICTORY...HE IS JEHOVAH ROPHE...THE LORD WHO HEALS..EX 15: 25-26...HE'S JEHOVAH SHALOM...YOUR PRINCE OF PEACE...SISTER...JUST AGREE WITH ME IN THE MIGHTY AND HOLY PRECIOUS NAME OF JESUS!!! YOU ARE HEALED...IT'S ALREADY DONE!!!!! JUST BELIEVE!!! GET DOWN ON YOUR KNEES AND ASK FOR GOD'S FORGIVENESS..HE'S WAITING TO HEAR FROM YOU AND TELL THE DEVIL HE'S A LIAR!!!
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Posted by: Empress28
on October 1, 2008 10:05 AM
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Why didn't you stop once you noticed the protection was removed?? You need to sit them down and explain to them what has happened to you
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Posted by: WAKEUPCALL
on October 1, 2008 10:14 AM
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IS THIS A PUBLIC SERVICE EXAMPLE OF WHAT CAN HAPPEN OR IS THIS TRUE?IF IT IS U NEED TO REPORT HIM,HE PURPOSELY KNOWING THAT HE HAS THA VIRUS INFECTED U....OMG SO SCARY..WHERE DID THIS HAPPEN OUT OF CURIOSITY?
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Posted by: Nadine
on October 1, 2008 10:18 AM
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Oh my sweet Jesus I am so sorry to hear this, bowy mi not even know whey fi tell you rite now....to think that you are a good woman with your beautiful kids and this man did this to you blows my mind. I will pray for you thats all I can do rite now.
I think you can have him arrested, if you prove that he knew his status when he had sex with you, if you are in NY you can dial 311 and ask for a Aids/HIV hotline and see if someone can speak to you about this matter. If you live anywhere else than NY just find out a Aids/HIV Hotline and see how they can help you, I'm sure that they must have some form of info for you. You need to act on this, he may be going around infecting other women, maybe with your help he can be stopped. Go to the police and find out PLEASE you may be able to save a life.
God be with you and your family, Pray and ask God for help, just remember that there are Medications out there that can help you to live a longer life when you are living with HIV, so just see where you can get the help that you need.
I am so saden by your story, I wish to God I neva have to read this, all I can leave you with is to Pray and Pray and Pray and seek medical help. God be with you.
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Posted by: nadine in london
on October 1, 2008 10:35 AM
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My lord in heaven,girl am crying,how many times must we be told to be careful of these kinda man,your kids are so young, do another test,am in shock for you,but you portrayed an image that you weren't to sure of the guy,and insisted to know his status. from the moment that he was reluctant,it should ring alarm bells,am not blaming you, we all do it once in our life.where are you,if you are in Jamaica please go to the Jamaica aids support and ask for Daunette Wellington or Ian Mcnight they will welcome you with open arms.pleaseeeeeeeee go to the police its a criminal offense,this is not the first time he has done it you are maybe is 99 victim,i have seven sisters and five nieces,let this bastard rotten in prison.he is taking revenge on some innocent women.I have nursed patients in Jamaica with HIV and also in London you can have a good quality of life with medication, good family support,diet and faith in who ever you believe in.
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Posted by: MUNCHIE
on October 1, 2008 10:42 AM
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Get a court order and make him take a test. I hope u seek help, be bless .
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Posted by: Dean
on October 1, 2008 10:45 AM
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WOW THAT'S A SAD STORY.....I MEAN WHAT CAN YOU DO.....YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE HE DOESN'T DO THIS TO ANY OTHER FEMALES.......THIS IS A VERY POPULAR THING NOW A DAYS PEOPLE WITH THE DISEASE ARE GOING AROUND HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX....AND THEY KNOW THEY HAVE THE DISEASE....IM SRY TO HEAR THIS....
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Posted by: shelley-ann
on October 1, 2008 10:54 AM
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Girl this is soo degrading. you need to report him to the authorities- this isnt right- you have been made a victim by this coward how many more victims will there be?- girl i feel it for you-you need to stay strong for your daughters- my heart goes out to you.
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Posted by: Sassy
on October 1, 2008 10:56 AM
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That is very sad to hear, I feel sorry for you girls. You should have taken time out to know this man, You had no business sleeping with a man you knew nothing about. That is the problem with todays generation they rush rush everything and end up with the consequences. I am 22 years old and let me tell i would never do that to myself. Nevertheless you 39 years old with two kids you should have known better. But i am not judging you, I feel your pain and that man is dead wrong. He knew he had it and he is just going to spread it, If i were you i would get his ass arrested. If he is aware of his status and willing pass it on to another person he can be arrested. Because you what know he is just gonna go do it to another dont let him do that do another woman.
This is actually a felony, he can be locked up for this. Very unfortunate..WOW, people be careful with who mess with especially these online sumtin, it nuh work out at all
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Posted by: shenequah
on October 1, 2008 11:10 AM
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baby i feel ur pain dats messed up i think u should post his name and his job and let other woman be aware of him ,he is wicked.wicked.
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Posted by: shenequah
on October 1, 2008 11:12 AM
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dem woulda haffi lock mi up but mi a go d work place go gwaan bad
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Posted by: mughead
on October 1, 2008 11:32 AM
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Sista I man sorry to hear that . Man like that don't matter colour race or religion deserve to be punish to the fullest extent of the law. Talk with you children about the matter let them know the public scrutiny you will go through and if they can deal with it i would take it to the justic system . Maybe there is no law on the books covering this but because of your effort there could be somethinng written
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Posted by: Orne
on October 1, 2008 12:05 PM
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I am sorry to hear of your predicament. Recriminations are a waste of time. Thank God though that there are treatments now, and if you start on it early - you'll be around to see your children grow up.
If I were you, I won't burden them with this news now, as it might stress them out. Just start the treatment and pray that other women won't make your mistake with that man, because in exposing him you will also be exposing yourself. Remember that there is still a lot of stigma attached to HIV and it might affect your children. Think of them. Wishing you all the best.
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Posted by: QUEEN B
on October 1, 2008 12:16 PM
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I REALLY APPRECIATE YOUR STORY IT TAKES ALOT OF GUTTS TO SPEAK OF YOUR ORDEAL, I ONLY HOPE THE OTHER RADERS EDUCATE THEMSELF ABOUT THIS DESEASE HIV, IT ONLY TAKES ONE TIME. I WISH YOU WOULD HAVE PUT THE CONDOM ON YOURSELF AND WATCH HIM CAREFULLY BUT YOU WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS. AND YES YOU SHOULD REPORT HIM TO DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH AND THE NYPD AND LET THEM DEAL WITH THIS SICK MF.
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Posted by: anonymous
on October 1, 2008 12:22 PM
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I am so sorry for yuh. This was a horrible thing that happened and a hard lesson to learn, but yuh must use your experience as a wake up call for other people. This is 2008 and while HIV is a serious illness it is no longer the instant death sentence that it used to be. Yuh can live a long productive life but yuh must take meticulous care of your health. Suing this dutty stinkin Jankrow is something that yuh want to seriously consider. Make this sick man pay for what he has done. Make every day with your children count. Bless yuh and your family.
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Posted by: Presy Jay
on October 1, 2008 12:25 PM
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dah pus**hole deh fi get a bullet to di head straight... Ah ediot ting dat an mi nuh endore it non-tall... Di poor kids dem ago suffer now because di pu**Y mess up di woman life. she need fi report him to di police because he knew he was HIV positive an purposely gave it to the poor woman. I am a father of two and I take pride in being there and being the best father that I can be to my children. This woman will more than likely not get a chance to see her girls grow up and even one day become a grandmother. Mi bun dem man deh STRAIGHT>>> ah di full clip fi dem. if that was my daughter, sister, or mother him would dead pon spot. It's ignorant, unducated, and wicked poeple like him why the HIV/AIDS virus keeps spreading. And finally, last but not least. STOP DI ONLINE DATING TING. it's not hard to pretend to be someone you are not by simple typing over the internet.
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Posted by: lexie
on October 1, 2008 12:36 PM
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woman are u stupid or what? u dont know this man from adams and on ur first sexual encounter with him u left urself unprotected!!! warning bells should have gone off in your head, the minute you saw him secretly removing the condom, plus how many single good looking successful men do you think u will ever meet online without them having a motive??. am tempted to say that u deserve what u got but that guy is a damn dog for doing what he did. Its ur kids i feel sorry for!
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Posted by: SEXYGOODAS
on October 1, 2008 12:47 PM
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NEVER TRUST ANY MAN WID U LIFE
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Posted by: pretty
on October 1, 2008 12:54 PM
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thank you so much for sharing your story, this should be a wake up call for lots of women out there. i am so sorry to hear this happen to you, that man is beyond evil and should burn in hell. after 39 years of living your life, the man destroy everything you work so hard for in one day. it really hurt me fi see dat happen to you. i hope all ladies will learn from this story, and may GOD protect and guide you and your children. this breaks my heart :(
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Posted by: bill-gates aka real moneyman
on October 1, 2008 12:56 PM
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LADY ,YOU NEED TO GO TO THE POLICE,I DON'T KNOW WHICH COUNTRY YOU ARE LIVING IN SINCE YOUR LETTER DIDN'T SAY,BUT I DO KNOW THAT IF YOU ARE HERE IN THE U.S WHAT THIS LOWLIFE DID TO YOU IS CONSIDERED A FELONY (I THINK IT IS ATTEMPTED MURDER)AND HE COULD DO SOME SERIOUS JAIL TIME FOR IT,I FEEL SORRY FORE YOU AND YOUR GIRLS,PLEASE REMEMBER ALL IS NOT LOST,THERE ARE A LOT OF GOOD MEDECINE AVAIABLE TO HELP SUPPRESS HIV.KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!
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Posted by: Tha Don
on October 1, 2008 01:02 PM
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This is just deplorable behaviour on both ends
first of all you don't know the person that well but
you decide to to sleep with him, Knowing that your children are your main responsiblity. I feel sorry for them. I hope that you get treatment fast at least you will be able to watch your children grow up.
As for this thing or object that looks like a man
he is nothing but a coward and he should be put in Jail for attempted murder! With no parole full time served. These are the kind of guys that give good men a bad name!
My grandmother use to say "Prevention is Better tahn cure" This was in the old days now some things are not curable. Just use protection or get the person to test for HIV before unprotected sex.
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Posted by: Titi
on October 1, 2008 01:06 PM
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Stop crying my Sista and take care of yourself, everyone makes mistakes, this is your fate for now. HIV can be cured, look after yourself naturally and wholistic. Pray everyday. Regarding the man involved, if your sure he's the one that infected you then I think you should expose him. This is a dilema that alot of men and women are facing today, know that you are not alone. Be strong for your children. Sitting home crying and thinking about your wrongs will not help your health. Be strong and live, that care of yourself and your children.
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Posted by: Jamaicanlady
on October 1, 2008 01:21 PM
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What a wicked man! Something similar happened to my aunt, but when she found out her status he ran off and was never heard from again. Jamaica, or America, you can both sue him, and have him imprisoned, because he has committed a crime. He knew he was poisitive, and engaged in sex with you, but by removing the condom, he deliberately infected you, he can go to prison for that.
I would go to the police and have him dealt with, but me personally, I'd probably find some gunmen to shoot out him blouselight!! He's too wicked, and your probably not the first. It's sad how one night of passion can give you a lifetime of pain. My prayers are with you. Whatever you do, don't let it get you down, take care of yourself now that you have this disease, if not for you, then for your children. God bless.
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Posted by: Sexxxy s
on October 1, 2008 01:28 PM
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Oh My God! Have him arrested, he did this to you on purpose! The way he try and sneak and then didn't return your phone calls and acting funny. Please report him to the authorities. And just remember you did the right thing, you wanted to protect yourself and this beast made it his business to do this to you. Take care and god will bless you!
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Posted by: samantha
on October 1, 2008 01:30 PM
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I really feel for you, but that is why I don't believe in on-line dating. You don't know what kind of sicko u can attract. And I am very weary of some of these men esp black men they don't like to use condom. I think u should suck it up and tell others about him he didn't consider your family when he was going to deceive u, it's only fair to save someone else if u can. And tell ur children if u can't tell them who can u tell. You owe them that much. I would go back to the page where u met him and tell everyone he is HIV positive who knows how many unsuspected women he has done this to.
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Posted by: co2
on October 1, 2008 01:34 PM
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Posted by: ROBERT
on October 1, 2008 02:00 PM
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YOUR R SO STUPID. IM SORRY FOR YOU BUT THAT A DUM FOOLISH CRAZY WORDS CANT DESRCIBED THE SITUATION YOUR IN
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Posted by: london
on October 1, 2008 02:09 PM
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sorry to hear that just focus on being healthy but true nowadays you dont no who to trust for real
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Posted by: staystrong
on October 1, 2008 02:09 PM
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Dating online can be a very big mistake and not to state the obvious this is one case. You could and should find out if you can take legal action against this person who knowingly and intentionally gave you this disease. A lot of people can live with this disease for a pretty long time just as long as you educate youself about it. I can imagine how devastating this must be for you and your children. But what is done is done and now is not the time to cry over spilt milk you still have your kids. My advise would be to educate your self about the facts of HIV, trust in the Lord with all your heart and let him direct your path, because no man on this earth holds your destiny.
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Posted by: Nell
on October 1, 2008 02:11 PM
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Wow! Miss I am SOOOOOOOOO Sorry for your Devastation. The only thing I can say to you at this moment is that you Take your Medication because people can live with this virus. Be an example for your Kids, Teach them..dont let them make the same mistake you did. I sure Hope I dont make it either. In regards to him, he should be punished for knowingly have the virus and passing it on. If u feel like Put Him Pon Blast, then so be IT. Tell us All.
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Posted by: criscris
on October 1, 2008 02:35 PM
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I am very sorry for you Lady please pray and ask god forgiveness as you now living with a huge guilt for your Children one day you do need to tell your Girls it's gona be hard but please bear in mine to face it so they do'nt fall in such a situation as you ask god to grant you courage,faith,&understading as you talk with your kids told them please to forgive you as you were not plannin to let your life end like that keep praying god in on the job
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Posted by: dessyd1
on October 1, 2008 03:21 PM
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im sorry for your ordeal its realy sad. but its your fault no rubbers no sex should be your matter u said u are educated. name him and shame him dont let him hurt other woman. and the next thing wy women always think a man have to be handsome to be a good man, its sad
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Posted by: i feel ur pain!
on October 1, 2008 03:23 PM
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baby girl i am so sorry 2 hear of ur situation , if that's how it went down, i will keep u in my prayers, keep the faith , just try 2 be stess free, n c ur doctor, just take care of ur self and live. just b careful.
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Posted by: bramz
on October 1, 2008 03:32 PM
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am sorry to hear what happen but you should learn to control your feelings ;i hope others may learn from your mistake
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Posted by: marie
on October 1, 2008 03:39 PM
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your post makes was a shock to read and i feel for you at this terribly difficult situation. what a complete nightmare, this man needs to have his balls cut off as punishment for this crime. there are laws that have been used to prosecute people who do this, so it is worth going to the police and seeking legal advice. or certainly informing the internet company where you met him, finally some words of comfort - hiv is no longer a death sentence, get yourself on the right combination of drugs and you can live a normal, healthy, long life.
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Posted by: sorry
on October 1, 2008 03:53 PM
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my heart is bleeding for you
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Posted by: Moviestar*
on October 1, 2008 04:08 PM
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You should definately sue him !!
Beleive me when I say this is an opportunity for you to not only save other women but also to get your story out. Sure you may worry about what people may think or how they would treat you but now you are faced with the cards fate has dealt you. He knew what he was doing,he is hell bent on spreading his disease so dont let that demon get away with it! Turn your lemons into lemonade Its hard bt you must do it for a peace of mind and for a better future, gettting stared is the hardest part but you can do it!
If you dont you will regret it and be burdened with this weight. You can inspire and be a strenght to thousands of women and even men out there. He think you are not gonna talk because you will be too afraid to expose yourself so dont let the devil win. I will be strong for you but you must follow your intuition and do what it tells you. You can never go wrong.In the future your children will be VERY proud of you :)
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Posted by: Htown
on October 1, 2008 04:53 PM
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i am so sorry this happened to you, but you have to tell your daughters the truth and tell them how they can protect themselves. they can by using protection or better yet not doing it until the guy has gotten tested.i wish the best for you...
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Posted by: sunshine4life
on October 1, 2008 04:57 PM
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What this man has done is not only disgusting but he is a criminal you should take him to court and inform anyone who will listen about what he has done to you. I will never know the full extent of your pain especially when u look at ur daughters but don't be ashamed u are a innocent victim and in life we are all given different burdens to bear and while we can't seen the lesson immediately the good Lord has already made a way for you. So pray, forgive and live each day as if it is your last. God's richest blessings always.
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Posted by: SIMONE
on October 1, 2008 05:12 PM
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omg.....that really sad........wicked man
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Posted by: SO WHAT
on October 1, 2008 05:26 PM
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damn, this is very sad. here is my advice, you have to expose him, find a way to do so because that was his intention from the begining just the way he goes about doing it. if you dont expose him, he will continue to infect other innocent people, this guy is evil striaght up. most importantly you need to make peace with yourself you probably feel guilty and betrayed and offcourse having your kids having to be a part of this is even more sad but just rememeber people are living long full lifes with this desease.i cant imagine how you feel but hang in there, as they say once there is life there is hope.i have to commend you for taking the test, most people wouldnt but you did the right thing, you will live longer once you know and treat it so you will be around for your kids. cancer and car accident kill people alot more than hiv, the only time this desease kill anyone is if they dont know about it and it turns into aids. on the real this guy should be dealt with if you know what i mean...he pretty much took your life and your happiness but god not sleeping honey. you can talk to a lawyer and see what they have to say but go to counselling and pray and you will eventually find a way to deal with this situation. focus on your kids and live dont let this take living away.
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Posted by: amedat
on October 1, 2008 06:00 PM
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YOU SUE THE BASTARD!! THAT'S CALLED ATTEMPTED MURDER! LOOK IN YOUR LAW BOOKS. YOU CANNOT LET HIM MURDER OTHERS! YOU ARE A WOMAN SCORNED BUT YOU MUST TRY TO HEAL FROM THE HURT. EVERYDAY YOU WILL THINK ABOUT THIS BUT, YOU WILL SLEEP BETTER WHEN HE IS INCARCERATED!
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Posted by: mimi
on October 1, 2008 06:03 PM
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U SHOULD go ahead and tell them the truth, yes it was wrong for him to betray u like that...BUT i think u should have known better come on u just meet the dude y didn't i go with him to take the test b4 u let him in ur panties?? Just BE HONEST WITH UR KIDDZ THERE'RE URS LET THEM KNOW THAT MOMMY MADE A MISTAKE AND TRY TO GET SOME HELP FOR URSELF BECAUSE I KNOW IT CAN BE DIFFICULT!!!! stay strong
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Posted by: dd
on October 1, 2008 06:12 PM
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oh this is so sad, i feel it for this sister, but what can she do? nothing i suppose, just try to save her soul from hell by becoming a christian and donot be like that devil in spreading aids, educate her daughters about aids ect. live good, enjoy life, still set goals and acheive them, you know live normal, with proper treatment she can still live very long. and that online dating thing i really don't trust it at all.
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Posted by: Simone
on October 1, 2008 06:18 PM
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I am so sorry to hear about your story. In this day and age though, there aren't too many people that you can trust when it comes to your own health. If they don't even care about their own, why would they care about yours? I have learned to understand that most people with this disease live in a denial and even though they know they have it, they don't want to believe it. Then..you have those people that are so angry that they have it, they just want to pass it on to everyone else. Those types of people tend to be the good looking, almost too good to be true kind of people.
At this point, there is nothing that you can do to reverse the effects of what has already happened. But, awareness is the key. You have two beautiful daughters and it's all about teaching them and allowing them to learn and understand not only about your situation but about about the disease in general.
I myself went to the dr. the other day and I was advised that HIV is at it's highest point right now. Many many people are infected and it's truly scary because I know lot's of people myself, and no one has ever said that they had it. But, I have a friend that works in a hospital, who confirmed to me that she did a search on 5 of our mutual friends, and she found out that (2) men we knew had the disease. These are men that have tried to date my friend and I previously. Would they have told us that they were infected? I highly doubt it.
My advice to you is to look towards the future and keep the positive things going in your life. Maybe you can go to workshops, they have online groups, counselors...etc. There are people with situations just like yourself and it would probably make you feel better around people you can relate to. People die in car accidents, cancer, murder, violence..etc. Therefore, tomorrow isn't guaranteed to anyone.
DON'T LIMIT YOUR LIFE. REFRESH, REBUILD, AND REBRAND YOURSELF. STAY POSITIVE. YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS.
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Posted by: angela
on October 1, 2008 07:57 PM
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girlfriend,i am feeling it for you,i can just imagine how you taking it.he is a low lying bastard,again things like that will happen to girls like you who is looking for handsome man.i can bet if he was ugly you would not even give the time of day but let me say many of those ugly men dont have things like that cause nobody wants them,but when them too handsome them too full of themselves and want everybody so them will catch every disease exist.go and report him before its way too late.as for me,me cant stop love my ungly man dem.
You cannot let him continue! It will be very difficult to prosecute if he says he got it from you and it may come down to DNA testing and the stage of the infection. I cannot see how a man could do this to a woman especially someone that he knows will see him again, has his number knows where works and lives. He needs to be dealt with.
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Posted by: Vanessa
on October 1, 2008 08:22 PM
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You should sue him. Since you asked and insisted on using protection, and he removed it with out you knowing YOU SHOULD SUE HIS ASS. Get him into court and make sure that he pays. You should make an public announcement in the paper giving his name and his work place so that women are for warned. What a wicked and cruel man he is. If this was me he would be hiding for his life and I would be singing the whole situation from the bell tower for all to hear what he did to me and my children. I am not even in your shoes and I am so mad with this man
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Posted by: Mout A Massy
on October 1, 2008 09:25 PM
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Lawd Jesas him dead. My girl by di time yu a write dis mi woulda did done get 2 good chap affa yute.
Ear wha, mi nuh inna your spot fi tell yu waa fi do but anuh di end a di world. out of evil must come forth good. there are medecines that can help and possibly even cure. dont accept this as ur fate. try to enjoy as much of your life as you can .[ dem did sey if it look too good fi be true anuh true] guh dung a legal aid office and see if u can prosecute fi dem lock him up. i think in di us its a crime to knowingly infect some one is might as well dem call it pre meditated murder . but dem fi put him wey nuh bady caan get bugga by him caa him might waa infect odda ppl bout straight an homo an nuh matta wat ppl preference it nuh right fi him tek people life inna him hands.
my girl guh scandal dat! call newspaper, call him jab. jus like ow him try en fi yu life , mek di worl know so him wont mess up nuh bady else an people wi shun him
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Posted by: jody
on October 1, 2008 10:08 PM
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yow dey man dey wicked,people all you need to do is be safe
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Posted by: diamond princess
on October 1, 2008 10:21 PM
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I am touched by this, it is very sad, this guy is the devil from hell, and chances are he wil b doing the same thing to other women 9dirty bastard)..... I think u can notify the authorities, and this serial sexer can b charged or something, bcuz he is infecting others and depriving them of their health and eventually their life. Its sad, i sympathize with u, but pray and have faith, u made a mistake, and i hope this will b a lesson to other women who will realise the importance of protecting themselves or insistingthat their sex partner does a HIV test b4 engaging in sexual relations
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Posted by: san
on October 2, 2008 12:18 AM
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just hold on its not the end of the world these online man people shouldnt be trusting them we need to be careful its so sad to hear this these men are wicked u cant trust them. please be carefull ladies
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Posted by: anonymous
on October 2, 2008 05:49 AM
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TiTi
Please do not give false information....HIV can not be cured....Look at Magic Johnson...He is doing excellent health wise due to the fact that he takes care of himself but he is not cured...Until they find a cure he will stay positive just like this woman...I do agree that natural and holistic are the way to go...The most important thing is to strengthen your relationship God.....This world is so wicked....
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Posted by: HWT
on October 2, 2008 05:51 AM
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titi hiv can be cured??????really I wasnt aware of that,There is a law in the usa if someone knows they have the virus and effects someone they could be charged with manslaughter.people like this are the ones who spread the virus,very sad
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Posted by: chungie71
on October 2, 2008 06:02 AM
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I AM SADDEN TO HEAR THIS STORY, BUT I AM NOT SURPRISED. THIS HAPPENS EVERYDAY. WE AS WOMEN SOMETIMES GET CAUGHT UP IN SEX AT THE MOMENT AND NOT THINK ABOUT THE REPROCAUTION. YOU MUST ALWAYS ASK FOR THE STATUS BEFORE. IT'S ASHAME HOW MEN/WOMEN THINK THEY HAVE TO PASS IT ON BECAUSE THATS WHAT SOMEONE DID TO THEM. ANY PARTNERS I HAD/HAVE THEY HAVE TO TAKE A HIV/AIDS TEST FIRST. THERE IS A SLIP HERE AND THERE BUT THANK GOD THEY WERE CLEAN.
YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT EVERYONE YOU MEET LIKE THEY HAVE THE VIRUS....SO YOU KNOW THAT IF YOU DECIDED TO GIVE IT ON YOU MAKE SURE YOU USE PRECAUTION. ITS YOUR LIFE IF YOU DON'T TAKE CARE OF IT NO ONE YOU MEET WILL.
EVEN THOUGHT YOU CAN LIVE LONGER LIFE WITH IT WHO IN THE HELL WANTS TO TAKE LIKE 20 PILLS A DAY. THIS NEED TO BE A WAKE UP CALL 4 EVERYONE OUT THERE. TOO BAD YARDFLEX CAN.T SHOW THIS BASTARDS FACE SO EVERYONE CAN SEE.
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Posted by: observer
on October 2, 2008 06:44 AM
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if you have pictures of him, name age, description, home address, where he works, what he does for a living, places he frequents. You should take this information to the Police and Attorney General office. Also if there are any women advocacy groups, and the human rights commission. Lastly, but most effectively, if you get this information on the internet publish it fast. If you get talk radio to interview you also the media
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Posted by: Jimmy
on October 2, 2008 10:30 AM
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Life is very long way with hill or mountains and valleys.You are now on the valleyof shadow of death struggling to get through.God will never those who trust in thee.Just kneel down and ask for forgiveness.He is a merciful God and compassionate God.Take courage en remember its another face of life you have taken.Believe God because He gives good health en so He can to you.
Take heart sister en be strong
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Posted by: Ria
on October 2, 2008 12:44 PM
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I am so sad to hear this has happened to you. Girlfriend, This internet dating is a DANGEROUS thing. You can't go and sleep with someone you chat with on the net. You have to Build up a face-to-face friendship first with someone and see where that lead to. This could have happened wherever you meet this man. So it;s important to get to know someone before you jump into bed with them. Report him to the police even if you do it anoymously, cause I know how you feel shame and don;t want people to know. Even though you are happy to revel it on the internet.
Expose him to all, at his workplace and in the area he lives. This will make sure this low life will not get the chance to do this to someone else. In the meantime go and get medical help and sort out your life for the sake of your children.
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Posted by: SISTA RANKIN
on October 2, 2008 01:26 PM
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MAY THE GOOD LORD GUIDE AND PROTECT YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN.(I AM IN TEARS AS I WRITE THIS :( I AM A SINGLE MOTHER OF THREE AND I AM ALSO THE SAME AGE AS YOU. WHAT I CHOSE TO DO IS PRACTICE ABSTINENCE. I HAVE BEEN DOING THIS FOR THE PAST THREE YEARS. I PROMISE MYSELF IF I EVER GET INVOLVED WITH A MAN WE ARE GOING TO THE DOCTOR TOGETHER!!!!! NO IFS ANDS OR BUTS!!!!! IF HIM EVEN HESITATE ME KNOW IS A SURE SIGN THAT HE IS A JACKASS!OR QUITE POSSIBLY INFECTED WITH HIV/AIDS!!! JUST REMEMBER FADAH JESUS NAW GO PUT YUH NOWHERE WHERE HIM LOVE, MERCY, AND HIM GRACE CANNOT REACH YOU. THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOUR LIFE IS OVER!!!! YOU CAN STILL LIVE A LONG, HEALTHY, AND PRODUCTIVE LIFE MY DEAR. TRUST GOD SOME MORE!!!
ROXIE I WAS MOVED BY YOUR KIND WORDS AND I AM SURE THE YOUNG LADY APPRECIATES IT.
EVERYBODY PLEASE SAY A PRAYER FOR THIS YOUNG LADY AND HER CHILDREN. AMEN
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Posted by: jodie
on October 2, 2008 06:03 PM
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i am so sorry i no sorry can't help u but god will he always do .just live your life with your girls on tell them the kind of man out they please.
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Posted by: outanmad
on October 2, 2008 07:59 PM
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it is really sad to know that a person can do this to another, and i really feel it for the kids but u r a big woman who should have known better than to let a man trick u,why did,nt u get up when u found out he removed the condom and u did'nt even say u tried to, so it seems like u were enjoying yourself and now u r paying the price,from the minute the man said he doesn't like protection u should've never let it reach that far but u were just looking on the man's prince charming look,but u get what the duck get in more ways than one,take some responsibility for ur action too,for u r not a child,just hold up ur head and go look bout urself and try to live for ur kids,cause it done happen aready,whatever u want to do to him is ur buisness,u and him had fun messing up the bed now is u one left to spread it up,love god,pray hard and live and remind everyone else to wrap it up.
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Posted by: Tanesha
on October 3, 2008 12:31 AM
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I am so sorry to hear what happen to you and my sister i can tell you this much dont be afraid to polish this name picture and address please talk to your children about this god will make them understand try and medication has soon as posssile and live life as long as god want you to with your children i will be keepen you and your children in my prayers.
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Posted by: Dahlea
on October 3, 2008 08:50 AM
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First i just want to say i am so sorry about what you are going through. I work in the health care and i just want you to know HIV is not not necessarily a death sentence. You can still go on to lead a full productive life. There are medications, counselling and support available to you. I dont know about JA but in USA and Canada this is a serious crime. You should report it to the police. They treat this very seriously.
This should be a warning to men and women who are fooled by pretty looks and sweet talk and the outward package. You cannot look at someone and tell if they are HIV+. It does not matter how long you have been in a relationship. If the person is hesitant about wearing protection the answer is NO!!. I have had to convince many newly pregnant women in my line of work to take HIV test as part of thier early pregnancy screening. They sit there and tell me I dont have any problem like that. We are all vulnerable wake up people.
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Posted by: Donnalee Simone
on October 3, 2008 04:28 PM
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I hope you had gotten his name and address in full, so it can be submitted to the relevant Agents, who can find him and have him tested and taken off the streets. I BET u are a very pretty and educated lady! You are the ones these diseased rhinocerous pizzle look for. The pretty men are the bastards, well, some. For all you women out there, BE CAREFUL!! I live in Canada and have a 4 year old child. I don't play like that again. I love you, whoever you are, no sins go unpunished.
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Posted by: tinaberry
on October 3, 2008 07:34 PM
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am deeply sorry for you, but the facts are still standing if yuh see di man a tek off di condom stop di sex no matter how bad u want it. stop cause it nuh pretty fi know say yuh have hiv and have to live with it bwoy mi nuh know how u a go manage but mi soory fi yuh,woman inna dem time yah yuh fi have sense if me can be so young as 19 and know say not even my boyfriend can come to me with dem foolish talking bout dont like condom him afi go like it or leave point blank.
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Posted by: NO NAME
on October 5, 2008 09:42 AM
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THAT IS WHY I AM NOT IN THE INTERNET THING IT IS VERY VERY DANGREROUS TO DO THAT I DO NOT GIVE A FUCK HOW CUTE HE MAY BE AIDA IS VERY UGLEY I WORK IN A HOSPITAL IN NEW YORK AND IT IS VERY SCAREY TO SEE THE MAN AND WOMAN THAT COME IN I AM IN MY THIRTYS AND FOR THE PAST FOUR YEARS I LEAVE SEX ALONE AND NOT EVEN THINKING OF IT AND BY THE WAY IF YOU HAVE AIDS WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX I KNOW WE ARE ALL HUMAN BUT GOOD GOD LEAVE IT ALONE NO MAN CAN COME NEAR ME AND TELL I NOTHING TO OPEN MY LEGS I WILL TAKE YOUR MONEY ONE OR TWO TIMES AND BY THE THIRD TIME YOU GET SMART I AM EVEN SMARTER THAN YOU AND MOVE YOU UP PEOPLE LEAVE THE INTERNET ALONE USE THE INTERNET FOR SHOPING READING THE THE JAMAICAN STAR AND GLEANER AND DONOT FOR GET YARD FLEX CALL A FRIEND READ A BOOK AND MEN IF YOU HAVE YOU WOMAN STICK TO HER STOP TELLING HER LIES STAY HOME YOU DO NOT FIND AGOOD WOMAN IN NO DANCE HALL GOING TO NO DANCE EVERY WEEK NO JOB ON WELFARE AND CALLING YOU SELF PARIS HILTON YOU MORE LOOK LIKE PARIS HILLTOP CHANGE YOU LIFE STYLE GO TO CHURCH EVEN ONE TIME FOR THE MONTH AIDS IS NO JOKE AND YOU TOOOOOOOOO LITTLE GIRLS AND AND FORCE RIPE BOYS TAKE YOUR BOOKS AND I DO NOT FORGET THEM MAN THAT AWEAR THE GIRL PANTS THAT THEM A CALL STRIGHT LEG AND AND A HOP FROM DANCE TO DANCE CHANGE YOU STYLE DO NOT FORGET THAT LITTLE WORD AIDS IT IS NOT NICE TO IN A HOSPITAL BED EARING IV BEEPING AND RUNING AIDS IS PAINFULL AND ALL YOU MEN AND WOMAN THAT KNOW YOU HAVE AIDS AND SLEEPING AROUND WHAT YOU GOING TO TELL GOD YOU GET AWAY FROM MAN BUT REMEMBER FATHER GOD HE IS LOOKING YOU WILL GE A
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Posted by: Dahlea
on October 5, 2008 08:01 PM
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No Comment please AIDS is not only spread by internet dating. There are many people walking around with HIV who never internet date or go clubbing. there are married men and women in the church who have contracted HIV through no fault of thier own. Open up your mind and stop thinking that HIV is only for certain sector of the population. Abstinance is best but if not protect yourself. Do not wait for the other person to protect you. If they hesitate about wearing a condom the answer is NO!! It does not matter how cute they are. Wives and husbands you might think you are safe...You would be surprise at the amount of cheating spouses who are out there sleeping around with no protection. HIV can come right into your home.
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Posted by: sexyredzz
on October 6, 2008 04:56 PM
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please go to the police cuz him know wat him a do.God na like ugly but a fyah fe him me wan cuss but dat na solve it.take him to court post him picture pon de web everything let everybody know bout him.Betta u dan me cuz if a me him woulda dead long time.na mek man tek ya fe fool if him think sey dat alone a go kill him mek him wait till God done wid him.REPORT HIS ASS NOOOOOOOOWWW OK DONT WAIT DO IT NOW. y sum ppl so wicked so man me a tell ya any body a read this LET THIS BE UR LESSON cuz it can happen to anyone
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Posted by: NATALIE
on October 7, 2008 04:02 PM
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i think u should sue his ass ,he did this wicked act on purpose an he should pay dearly b4 he dies, atleast u know ur kids will be well provided for when u go , i pray for u , be strong in the lord my sister, the devil is out there to destroy
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Posted by: SAMUEL BENJAMIN
on November 18, 2008 01:02 PM
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GLORY TO JAH ABBA FATHER, SELASSIE I 1ST, PEACE BE TO ALL AND GOODWILL BE TO ALL JAH CHILDREN, ALL JAH CREATION,
MY DREAR SISTER, IT IS WITH SADNESS OF HEART I READ OF YOUR DRAMA WHICH YOU HAVE FACED AND STILL FACEING,CALL ON JAH, LODGE YOUR COMPLAINT TO JAH, AND REPENT AND HE WILL SAVE YOUR LIFE.
WHILE I WILL LIKE TO FOCUS ON YOU AND YOUR DRAMA, THIS SITUATION IS WAY MORE BIGGER, SO I'LL SPEAK IN GENARAL,
? ANYONE EVER ASK THEMSELF WHY ARE SO MANY PEOPLE ON DEATH ROW WITH H.I.V AND AIDS? LET'S THINK ABOUT IT CAREFULLY!
WHAT ARE WE DOING WRONG? IT MUST BE SOMETHING WE ARE DOING WRONG, LET'S SEE!
(1) ARE WE LIVING THE RIGHT WAY IN THE SIGHT OF GOD AND MAN?
THAT WILL BE READING OUR BIBLE A CHAPTER A DAY, THAT WE MAY SEE LIGHT AND NOT BE LOST IN DARKNESS.
IF YOU ARE NOT DOING THAT WHICH IS MENTIONED ABOVE THAT MEAN YOU ARE IN DARKNESS AND YOU WILL FACE LIFE CHANGING DRAMA LIKE SO MANY PEOPLE WE KNOW HAS FACED AND STILL FACEING.
(2)
ARE WE TOO MUCH IN A RUSH TO SIN? HAVEING SEX BEFORE MARRIGE IS NOT RIGHT, IT'S WRONG, AND BECAUSE IT'S WRONG THESE THINGS HAPPEND AS A JUDGEMENT TO THE SINNER,
WE AS A PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD TODAY SHOULD WAKEUP AND SNAP OUT OF IT, AND DEAL WITH REALITY,
THE FACT IS THAT YOU CAN'T LOOK AT SOMEONE AND SAY THAT THIS PERSON IS NOT SICK WITH THE FATAL ILLNESS H.I.V AIDS YOU CAN'T! THEREFORE WE NEED TO HUMBLE OURSELF,RESPECT OURSELF,LOVE OURSELF,TAKE GOOD CARE OF OURSELF, OUR BODY IS THE TEMPLE OF GOD ALMIGHTY OF ISRAEL THEREFORE IT IS OUR DUTY TO TAKE CARE OF OUR HEALTH,THE MASSES OF THE PEOPLE IN THE WORLD TODAY HAS BECOME A VICTIM OF UNMARITAL SEX, IMORALITY, IT HAD BEEN THOUGHT THROUGH THE EVIL FORCE WHICH IS THE MEDIA, THAT IT'S OKAY TO HAVE SEX WITHOUT BEING MARRIED TO ANYONE YOU PLEASE, AND WE FELL VICTIM TO THAT LIE THAT SATAN THOUGHT US, IT'S NOT OF GOD MY PEOPLE READ YOUR BIBLE AND YOU WILL SEE, THAT IT IS NOT OF GOD TO DO SUCH THINGS,
I REMEMBER OLD FOLKS TALKING ABOUT BACK IN THE DAYS WHEN 2 PEOPLE MET EACHOTHER AND WANT TO BE WITH EACH OTHER, FIRST THE FAMILY OF BOTH SIDES WILL HAVE A SIT DOWN AND TALK ABOUT THE FUTURE OF THE 2 LOVE BIRDS, AND IT WAS NO HANKY,PANKY BEFORE MARRIGE, WHEN THE 2 LOVE BIRDS MET THEY WILL BE AN ELDER MEDIATING THE 2 UNTIL THAT SPECIAL DAY, AND THEN IT WILL HAVE TO BE PROVEN THAT THE DAMSEL IS A VIRGIN AFTER MARRIAE, JAH BLESS THOSE DAYS,
IF REALATIONSHIPS WAS APPROCHED IN SUCH AN OLD FASHION WAY, MANY OF GOD CHILDREN WILL BE LIVING LONGER AND HEALTHIER LIVES,AND THERE WILL ME TESTED BEFORE MARRIGE, SECUREING A SAFE AND HEALTHY FUTURE.
TODAY WE SEE THE YOUNG VIRGINS ARE BEING TOSSED INTO DARKNESS BY OUR RECKLESS WAY OF LIFE, EVEN THE YOUNG MEN, FOR THEY ONLY LEARN WHAT WE TEACH DEM,,
WE MUST TAKE RESPONSABAILITY FOR OUR ACTIONS AND TRAD WITH SOUND WISDOM AND DISCREATION.
THEY MUST BE NO POINTING OF FINGERS , WHEN WE ALL KNOW( IT TAKES 2 TO TANGLE) JAH BLESS I PREAY THESE WORDS DON'T FALL ON DEF EARS,
TO ALL MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS OUT THERE LET'S LIVE UP RIGHT AND DO RIGHT JAH BLESS KEEP WALKING IN THE WAY OF LIGHT READING JAH WORD A CHAPTER A DAY, PEACE AND LOVE.
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Posted by: SAMUEL BENJAMIN
on November 20, 2008 01:48 AM
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JAH LIVETH,PEACE BE TO ALL AND GOODWILL BE TO ALL, ATTENTION YARDFLEX, I HAVE POST A COMMENT REGUARDING THE ISSUE OF H.I.V AIDS, AND I'M NOT SEEING IT UP AS YET IT'S BEEN 2 DAYS, WHAT'S THE MATTER? ARE YOU HOLDING BACK THE TRUTH FROM GOD CHILDREN? REMEMBER JAH IS WATCHING AND HE KNOW YOUR THOUGHTS.
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