« US Top Ten Most Freaky Sex Laws |
Main
| Akon added to Reggae Sumfest lineup »
July 15, 2008
When do women become lazy in a relationship?
By: Buffilous
 Yow what's up my peeps. Fi real the other day my friends and I were involved in a discussion and somehow the topic got around to 'why and under what circumstances do women become lazy in a relationship'. To tell the truth the argument got so heated that at one point we had to remind each other that it wasn't a quarrel, just a friendly discussion!
My sistren Patricia claim that when you find out that everything you do, the man doan appreciate it; an all him do is complain and act like it wasn't anything much, then it's time to meck him start fending for himelf!
According to har if you get up everyday, a wash, clean, cook and teck care a di man and him doan even spend the time to say thanks, and start all hype up on you, then why bother. If him even have the last shirt to wear and a beg you to wash a couple more, she sey you must ask him if him have fin hand and lef him meck him fend fi himself.
Well a few a di sistren dem sey dat harsh and how woman must find odda
ways fi meck dem point, but Sharon was plain and to the point. She sey dat woman must start lazy pon man when him start to have odda woman out a road.
She fling inna di argument dat it nuh meck nuh sense you a slave out pon him and him a teck next woman go joy ride and have fun. You a do di dutty work a yard and di odda woman a enjoy all a di thrills. Inna dem case deh, meck di odda woman do di wuck tuh.
Well to tell you di truth, not everyone a dem agree, some sey it nuh inna dem fi become lazy, while others say dem nuh watch nuh face, if you violate then help youself!
Well as for mi, well…if di man deserve mi energy him wi get it, but if him gi mi reason fi tink odda wise...den meck him find one helper!
Posted by yardFlex at July 15, 2008 09:56 AM
Comments
|
Posted by: sexyred
on July 15, 2008 12:53 PM
|
this naaaaaah happen at all......."yawn".........so boring
|
Posted by: ST1
on July 15, 2008 01:19 PM
|
Believe me, if a man have ooman with me, him no waan me cook fe him... lol lol. And me certainly nah wash him dutty clothes dem that a might even she mess up.
Seriously, it wouldnt be a problem because me gaan lang time.
|
Posted by: LIBERIANGIRL
on July 15, 2008 02:25 PM
|
THIS WHOLE TOPIC IS GARBAGE. GUESS WHAT? THIS IS "2008". WAITING ON A MAN HANDS AND FEET WAS BACK IN MY GREAT-GRAND-MOTHER DAYS . WOMEN ARE MORE EDUCATED NOW AND MOST DON'T PUT WITH SUCH BULL-SH*T FROM NO MAN.
|
Posted by: hgtvsays
on July 15, 2008 06:50 PM
|
How old are you? Your topics are so outdated and stupid that I have decided that you are a old lady( or maybe a man). Women of this 21st century don't talk like that and we do not condone sexism which is what your topics always amount to.
If this is over your head go get a DEGREE and stop pushing these old head topics.
|
Posted by: Dahlea
on July 16, 2008 06:39 AM
|
Liberian I agree with you. The topic is not even worth discussing. These women need to discuss more positive and empowering topics. Topics such as finacial power, fitness, health, rearing healthy, positive children so they do not grow up and accept this type of treatment from anyone.
|
Posted by: Senne'
on July 16, 2008 01:08 PM
|
Now Ladies....some women take pride in caring after their man and home. There's nothing wrong with traditional roles in the household if that is your choice. After all we do have a choice now, compared to the past. To each her own ; ) Love each other, agree to disagree! GOD doesn't make mistakes! HE created us all to be who we are. Be Blessed All My Sisters!
|
Posted by: Shakira
on July 16, 2008 03:56 PM
|
My dad is a player, him and my step mom has been together for a long time (married) and I know she knows that he is cheating, but yet still she just take it, she cooks, clean, iron because she looks on the bright side and say well I am the one who has the keys to his cars, the pin for the bank and so forth so if at any time she is fed up she can take the whole bank with her.
|
Posted by: irie sister
on July 16, 2008 06:39 PM
|
Shakira what kind a fool fool reasoning is that. "Have the keys to his cars, the pin for the bank and so forth........." Yes a woman with very low self esteem can sit with a cheating man for many years and yes, she can take the whole bank with her but what good can all the cars and money in bank do to cure AIDS?
C'mon now sister, don't make this be a way of living for you. Don't believe that this behavior is acceptable. Of course some real irie brothers can find some true sisters and just have a beautiful relationship. Is a hell of a thing when you'd like to make sweet loving to your man and have to be thinking about relations he's had with someone else.
But then again, some little fool fool gyal believe that they have to be in a competition with other gyals to freak out dem man. Freak out your man because you know how to. Not because you have to do it better than than another gyal he was just with a few hours ago! That is not living the good life for all you are worth!
|
Posted by: Incognito
on July 17, 2008 12:47 PM
|
Dem can do you bad eeh Buffy, nuh care wah you write say..hehehehhe.
Anyways on the topic, I am not sure about this cooking and cleaning thing. I personally do not believe in shacking up with anybody, and I believe this topic is revolving around common-law relationships. Since I am unmarried I have never had to do these things for any man, except maybe my Father. We live in a patriarchal society that has preset roles for men and women. Most men were doing their laundry, cooking and cleaning for themselves when they were single, but as soon as they get married or get in a common-law union they expect to be pampered and all housework should turn over to the woman. I think from the courting period a thorough discussion should be had about household expectations. If a woman is a Homemaker then by all means she should be responsible for the household chores as she is home all day; The only exception, is if there is a newborn in the home, then the Male will have to assist with chores. However, if she is an equal breadwinner there has to be a sharing of chores. How can a woman work 40 hrs a week and still be solely responsible for the upkeep of the home?
|
Posted by: kudzi
on July 18, 2008 08:13 AM
|
whats wrong with looking after yo man?u ladies just want to be looked after without u doing the same.
|
Posted by: jimmi
on July 18, 2008 10:29 AM
|
Yow buffi, if dats how yu fren sharon stay, shi nyah mek it inna life, shi mus hav mannas an kno ar place, brite. If she did eva do dat to mi, mi wooda kik har out, an get a new woman. Most Man haffi cheat, coz it's in our nature. Mi nyah tell nuh lie, sum man a idiot, cuz dem nuh use protection wid dem wife or matey, which is jus askin for trouble. Women, since u say all men are dogs, i guess it wood b smart if yu mek sure yu get one that is smart, kind & loyal. Coz him nyah lef yuh, an him nyah bring nuh disease fi infec yu
Post a comment
|
