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May 27, 2008
Not All That Glitters Is Gold
By: Dimples
 When old people talk we mus listen. Dem always seh "not all that glitters is gold" and is true. Now imagine yuh meet a nice man and ting and decide to settle down. Before unu move in together all is well. Him buy yuh nice gifts, expensive clothes, mi a talk 'bout Gucci, Guess, Dolce & Gabanna etc. Him put yuh inna one criss Lexxus and just spoil yuh like milk. Now you a tink you must be the luckiest woman right now.
So after all this, yuh convince seh yuh find a good man; a man weh a go tek care of yuh so yuh decide fi go live wid him. Yuh a plan fi work still cauz at least yuh wa'an av sumting fi yuhself. So after yuh live wid the man yuh start realize dat him was a wolf in sheeps clothing. First of all the man tell yuh seh yuh affi stop work and stay home an look after the house. Anywey yuh a go him affi de deh. So yuh know seh no more going out wit friends. Yuh think that is all! De man change yuh phone number so everybody weh yuh use to know ca'an call yuh again. Den yuh realize seh him know everybody weh yuh talk to and weh yuh send message to and yuh a wonder how come. Only fi know seh de man ave a fren weh work a Digicel an him get a list and the conversation of everbody weh yuh call and text. And it only gets worse. Yuh know yuh ca'an get on him bad side cauz yuh know him ago buss yuh *ss. So if him seh jump yuh betta ask how high. So wen all dis a happ'n to yuh yuh a wonder if it really worth it.
Tell me weh unu think, is it really worth it to stay wid a man like this?
Posted by yardFlex at May 27, 2008 10:54 AM
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Posted by: sexyred
on May 27, 2008 11:16 AM
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but dah man yah bright. no man cant tame me so after me no dog. me is my own big woman so a man better know himself
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Posted by: foxy
on May 27, 2008 11:17 AM
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no me no tink it worth it. woman must not let a man control her like dat worse him a beat her. is really true not all that glitters is gold
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Posted by: Tashema
on May 27, 2008 11:17 AM
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This is so true, I know of a friend that has to change her no. because the man is paying her rent, bills etc. she dont work and a him deal with everything as him no want her to work but she haffi hear wat him say at all times. It sad but some woman too damn dependent on man things.
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Posted by: 2muchinfo
on May 27, 2008 11:23 AM
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HELL NO...U HAVE TO LEAVE..THAT'S WHY WOMEN HAVE TO B SMART..WHEN U GET THE MONEY DON'T SQUANDER IT AND SHOW OFF..OPEN AN ACCOUNT FOR YOURSELF AND SAVE..WHEN PUSH COMES TO SHOVE TEK DI MONEY AN RUN!
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Posted by: Senne'
on May 27, 2008 12:53 PM
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Men like this have a problem. That's why we need to be careful, Ladies!! Take your time. Don't let no man rush you in a relationship and don't let him have control over you. It's about give and take....Be Blessed!!
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Posted by: sweet sadie
on May 27, 2008 12:53 PM
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A WOMAN SHOULD ALWAYS RETAIN HER INDEPENDANCE, HAVE HER BUSINESS OR JOB. ONLY A VERY INSECURE MAN WOULD TRY TO PROGRAM A WOMAN IN THIS MANNER. TOO BAD THAT YOU HAVE SOME WOMAN WHO WANT TO BE KEPT BY A MAN, THAT'S WHEN THE LIBERTY START BUSS.
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Posted by: sweet sadie
on May 27, 2008 12:54 PM
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A WOMAN SHOULD ALWAYS RETAIN HER INDEPENDANCE, HAVE HER BUSINESS OR JOB. ONLY A VERY INSECURE MAN WOULD TRY TO PROGRAM A WOMAN IN THIS MANNER. TOO BAD THAT YOU HAVE SOME WOMAN WHO WANT TO BE KEPT BY A MAN, THAT'S WHEN THE LIBERTY START BUSS.
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Posted by: Ringolero
on May 27, 2008 01:40 PM
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Yo Dimples dem man deh have a name still
Dem call dem WASTE-MAN!!
But gyal fi mind them bl**dcl44t self! and done
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Posted by: mash
on May 27, 2008 01:55 PM
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u know what me realize? some ooman too licky-licky. me ave a friend wah, any man she a talk to, him haffi have dollars signs printed all over him. anything less than dat, she run him from her!! no sah, no me!! i prefer enter a relationship with someone who is far from being rich, as long as he is a hard worker and is ambitious. then we can strive to make a life together. no mind the fact that i would have to forego some of the finer things in life, n he may not be able to spoil me like milk, but at least it is better to have a less extravagant lifestyle n be happy than to have all the glitz n glamour while being trapped in a cage like some wild animal. a suh me seet!
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Posted by: sexytc
on May 27, 2008 02:11 PM
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it nuh worth it at all!! dont u see him want tame d g, him cant tame me tho, am an independent g. straight up
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Posted by: ShellShell
on May 27, 2008 03:13 PM
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Two words - insecure & materilistic
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Posted by: toni
on May 27, 2008 06:10 PM
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We all know that some woman don't like to work they want to live the nice life without having done anything... Everything in life comes with a price.. The bust *ss is the price to wearing the GUCCI AND PARDA AND DRIVING THE Lexxus..We can say it's not right and any woman in such a sitution should leave but we would be wasting our breathe.. THEY WON'T.
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Posted by: SexyMummy
on May 27, 2008 08:51 PM
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Bl**odclaut... Wat a man facey n waan fi dead mon' Yo a dem deh man fi get bun nuh man cyaan buy mi owt suh mi nah deal wid nuh man higha dan mi 2 ra**s mi wuda cut em awf as soon as em chang mi numb mi gone
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Posted by: chat bout
on May 28, 2008 08:51 AM
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you tell me something,do you truly think b/c a man buys you material things makes him a good man? think about that first b4 you start chat bout move in.
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Posted by: sunflower
on May 28, 2008 05:49 PM
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A lot of women who get caught up in this situation are women who love the profiling and the hype. Dats the price some of dem have to pay. Its nice when you can spend yuh own money and nuh bleach pon man.
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Posted by: talk the truth
on May 29, 2008 09:43 PM
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You see a little guy who is insecure start out by searching and finding a little girl who is vulnerable or likky likky. Of course all those "things" seem tempting.
But that is our problem: We get caught up with "things". Before you know it you are so controlled and contained that the man start to all molest your girl child and there's nothing you can do about it because of fear of your life or fear of losing the "things".
Sometimes the man is even in a different country and stay thousands of miles and control your every move. If you go to the gate he hears. If you are on the house phone with your friend you need to get off because he needs to talk to your teenage daughter immediately. That is strange. You go through all of that for what? "THINGS". He doesn't even use condom.
I pray that the sistrens seek God and realize that little is a lot as long as you have it in the Lord. Nuh watch nuh face just love God and live!!!
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Posted by: sherese
on June 2, 2008 11:46 AM
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hell no its not worth it!! he can kiss my *ss n take his money n car n go straight to hell!!!!!!
aint no one gonna treat me like they own me, his money cant buy me like that!!
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