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May 19, 2008
A Suh Mi Sey
By: Joan Wilson
Woman unno fi support each odda
 It sound hard fi sey, but unno know sey wi woman really hard pon wi one anodda. Yup, di odda day a was reaching out to a girl that got raped and suppose yuh hear di kinda comment whey a come from woman!
Mi woulda did feel betta if a di man dem a sey it cause at least mi coulda sey a just true dem nuh waan admit sey dem bredren coulda do dat. But fi hear some woman task is like dem hate di woman whey get rape or she did a beg fi it. Nuff time mi nah sey dat every woman a angel and even if she did outa road a sell it, di fact dat she pick nuffi gi dah one deh none, it still inna har rights not to and NO man nuh have di right fi force himself pon a woman wedda she a pros or not.
It happen dat one such get rape and listen to some a di comment dem why women pass, "she did a beg fi it", "nobady can rape dat...whosoever will", "she have nutten lef fi rape".
Mi skin crawl when mi hear some a di comments dem whey a fly offa di lips a woman, whey dem compassion dey towards one anodda. Yuh know when it worse, meck one woman eva go sey one entertainer rape har, especially if a one popular one. Now mi nah refer to no particular case suh nuh badda mix mi up. Mi just a talk sey di rape victim harshest critics dem a always one woman.
Di poor woman get violated privately and den get rape again inna public and from the least likely source. Mi feel like sey if we as women was more supportive to each other then we could encourage other victims to come out and talk bout dem ordeal, but no star, wid some a wi tongue...victims fraid!
Fi real a time fi wi start to practice being real sistas and looking out fi each other. Meck a man know sey him fi tink twice before him violate...a time fi support yuh own...a suh mi sey!
Posted by yardFlex at May 19, 2008 10:36 AM
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Posted by: sexynrg07
on May 19, 2008 11:12 AM
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i completely agree it's so true. also when a man cheats on his woman the first thing the woman do is is blame the other woman. dem no consider say that other woman might no have no idea say him have other woman. ladies we need to support each other.
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Posted by: sexy baby
on May 19, 2008 11:18 AM
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i totally agree sum woman luv gwaan like a every woman weh get rape did a beg fi it.
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Posted by: toni
on May 19, 2008 12:13 PM
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i believe it... most women are like that... they never have nothing nice to say about another woman.
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Posted by: SWEETSADIE
on May 19, 2008 04:44 PM
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I totally agree, we women are our own worst enemies. Look how some women quick to take people husband and baby father. It come in like they dont realise the same knife that stick sheep, stick goat. Ladies let's love our selves and one another, trust me the world will be a better place and you will be a better person.
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Posted by: Jamaicanlady
on May 19, 2008 07:23 PM
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Agreed. When I was raped, even the man who did it to me, apologized to my family, and even admitted that he never meant to do it, and that I didn't want it, but my own mother was my biggest supporter, and biggest critiziser. To this day, she says it was partly my fault. He even wrote letters of apology, but yet, she still even talked with him friendly afterwards, and still looks upon me as if I was at fault. Woman can be bitches, and very harsh to each other, my Mother included. It's an old fashion believe to feel this way for most women, they are always taught a woman is to be virtuous, and those out of the norm, are whores, or skettels, and deserved it. this is not true, No means No, and it doesn't matter the type of woman, if you take it, you have commited rape!
It's been said that the best jury for a raped woman is all men, but not just any men, men with daughters, they are the most simpathetic, even more than women. It's a shame women are this way. If you want to here the worst of women's comments, bring up Jah Cure, everybody knows it was her fault, though no one knew of Jah Cure at the time, nor even cared about him, and no one was there, but they swear up and down it was her own fault. God, some of these people sick me! Sorry if this ever happens to their mother, sister, aunt, or any female close to you, I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy!
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