It sticky. But mi nuh wrong you , mi woulda beat out the two a dem backside fi tru.

Well girl i know it is going to be hard to trust again but try as you wouldnt want mr. right to come along and you push him aside because of some crap a stupid man did, so jus try and trust me I know you will eventually get by.

Mi frend, never trust u fren dem wid u man

Sorry to hear that, you don't deserve that heart break from either of them. but, I'll tell you something,most bestfriends discuss too much with each other, for example the fact that your man is good in bed; most friend would take it up on themselves to want to find out for themselves. Some woman discuss the the problems and the good times they have with their man. Woman have to lean that their are certain boundaries, and certain things should not be discussed with friends. I know you trusted her and you trusted him also; not to say that they wouldn't have gotten together whether you devulged your intimate details with your friend.

Move on, they are not worth your friendship; that man has not respect for your or else he would have been thinking with his brain and not his dick...most men are very weak and they are not partial with whom they choose to lay in bed with. He was a dog and will always be a dog. He was not thinking about what you both had invested in this relationship the same with your friend, she is missing out on a good friend and no one will ever trust them again.

All the best to you! You could have married him and found this out later, best that if it was going to happen it did now rather than later.

Buss the two a dem r*ss yes.But u never sey a whose house, cause worst if a did my house me deh throw out the two f*cka dem naked. Dem can go finish weh dem start outside. Anyways is not all man stay like that, u thought u had love but a nuh yours that, nuh give up, fi u man out there

sound like a fairytale, something you would read in Confession magazine or sumthing

I feel your pain,but quite frankly i'm a little fed up with the patois writing us jamaicans do understand english! or is it u are unable to write it?

LOVERLORN, u r correct we woman tell our frend too much infro, i had a frend and she alwayz said she would f*ck my man, bcuz e is a good f*cker man based on my infro,i started looking at her differently, i dont take kindly 2 words, i told him wat she said, and if i find out i would personal f*ck him up and i meant it, i will disconnect his face bcuz he would b 2 f*cking bright. and for her may god has mercy when i am trough know u value as a frend and as my man.

but to r**s.beat the two a dem yes. i would a mek sure tek e gal clothes mek it affi go home naked. i would a tear off the two a dem face to rass, when a dun wid dem, dem would a want a totally new life!!!! sCRAWN dem!!!!

neva trust u friend roun u man, and dnt tell u fren dat u man knw fi send on good, dem wi f*ck him!

de two ha dem deserve each other ole dog dem.

Dem seh when Puss gaan Rat tek charge!!!!
I suggest you go look for her man and return the favour!!!

Melesha, when yuh a feel pain, trus me...standard english does not express it quite so eloquently. So be proud of your culture and learn fi read patois cuz the writer dem nuh have no time fi dress it up!

I have a comment and most of the women won’t like it. Cheating does not imply that a man is not in love with his girl. Most women argue that by cheating that would cause the girl you claim to love pain and heart break, News flash if men knew they would get caught when they cheat they won’t, for example dimples guy did not anticipate an early return or else, had he known she would meet him sandwich between the sheet and the bed and not between her friend.
I know ah number of guys who cheated, realized the error of their ways and still with the original girl many of whom are married now, but then I guess that not love.

@Melesha; Louise Bennett made us Jamaican proud of of our lingua. You sound some what shame, this is a site is by Jamaicans for Jamaicans and whom ever else decides to drop in but first and foremost its for Jamaicans. mi luv mi patois, it's distinquished.

Louise Bennett really hit the truth about her society through its own language", and as an important contributor to her country of "valid social documents reflecting the way Jamaicans think and feel and live” Through her poems in Jamaican patois, she raised the dialect of the Jamaican folk to an art level which is acceptable to and appreciated by all in Jamaica.

In her poems she was able to capture all the spontaneity of the expression of Jamaicans' joys and sorrows, their ready, poignant and even wicked wit, their religion and their philosophy of life.

No sure if you are Jamaican Melesha, but if you were like so many other Jamaicans you would be proud. Don't discriminate, appreciated!!!!!

It's so true what was said. Women sometimes tell to much information about their man to thier friends. Some women are b*tches, and just look to get whats good, even if it belongs to someone else. Even Spice, told the Star that a friends boyfriend told her how good he was in bed, and she even admits to secretly watching them have sex just to see if he was as good as he said. I'm not suprised of this coming from Spice, but I still think that is disgusting and she was wrong, just the type of friend you shouldn't keep. I understand, because being hurt by a man makes you turn against them, because same happend to me, but if the right man every really comes along, the kind that really loves you, and only you, then you may change your mind. Wish you luck. P.S. I would f*ck both of them up, and in my bed!! lawd of mercy! dem woulda dead!!

Dont matter if you are male or female. Dont trust you friend dem wid you personal tings.

The worst ting is dat EVEN before the sticky stick, yuh partner nah go talk seh the best friend a mek a move, and the best friend nah go talk niether...

But babes? I understand seh you done wid di man (cause you sound single), but you and the best friend still talk?

I'm so terribly sorry you experienced such a heart-stopping act of betrayal. The Lord has his plans for you sistah. Hold the faith. Bless-up!

u fren is a bioche.....a life u nuh......u will love again

I totally enjoyed the disclosure of dimples; and I thoroughly enjoyed the blogs of all. I was a bit taken back by Melesha's request for the Queen's language....nothing tells it better than patois. Thank you Sharbar for helping her to understand that when we are angry or in pain we go straight back to where we are most comfortable. And I so enjoy reading de patois...I laughed so much I was in tears and pain. Thank you all.

Nah even badda wid it girl. Mi girl friend from 2 years ah tun WHORE on me outta the blue. Mi tek her virginity me was her first everything and she bruk mi heart in two. Just haffi get over some tings

melesha you have a serious problem,and obviously you dnt respect your roots.i love patois and i certainly enjoy reading it to the fullest.you have a problem!!!!!!!!!!

Mi feel yuh pain. but yuh wi fin a next love but it will be when yuh nah look! and next time nuh trust no Ooman roun' yuh man! Mi madda tell mi dat from mi lickle. Cah man front and ooman front nuh have no conscience! But you will be alright. but as for dem!, what goes around comes around!!! mi glad seh yuh did get your anger out still doe!

The sad thing is that you love dis man so. But my friend, if a woman can come by and take ya man like that, he was never yours in da first place, I know that you are hurt,and time will heal you. Just know that you know what kind of friend she is, and better yet go beat her face she should know better!!!

Cut deh ass! after all u do gyal i wudda f*ck u d man fuss den di "bess fren" was collecting a box everytime ah see she *ss! doh kno deh damn well place!!!

ya fi real Sharbar, good answer to Melesha, bless up

Dimples, am sorry to hear that happen to you...what they did was wrong and their time will come...dont let what they did stop you from living your life to the full though - they're not worth that price.

Melesha - whoever you are, get over urself quick...Jamaicans should ALWAYS speak, write, sing and enjoy their language, especially when in their own realm!!! I'm not Jamaican by a long shot, I'm good old Irish pure and true, but i do love Jamaica, her people and culture...if you dont want to read patois i'm sure there's a couple of other sites out there on the web you could spend your time browsing instead of coming here and insulting your own people!!!

@Melisha. Melisha my dear, if you're going to criticise people's patios writing then your English should be perfect and guess what - it's not. Have you ever heard of the word grammar...mmmmm!

So just chill out and enjoy di lickle patios nuh man...LOL!

Yo, I am a Black/Indian American woman and i love this site for real. I love the culture and the language.But it p*sses me off to hear melesha go at her own culture like that. And I pray that she is not American coming to this website and being disrespectful. She need to find herself, I wish I knew how to speak patoi so mi could chat pon her 4real, i know a lickle LOL
Big up to Yardflex and the Jamaican people Much Love!!!!!!

rarce ow cum suh much passa inna d one room. Mek d bwoy find out and dem a lok it off

A wud a pick a nice whip ya see or get a bamboo stick and lick the gyal up har backside and beat he bwoy wid e. E gayl afi run home naked !

Melisha we love patoi it's apart of our culture if u ca tek it left it Chinese Bajan every country has its own language i live in Barbados an people love to hear we talk an curse in patoi

it's sad when u truly love someone an not a stranger but u own friend take him away eh hot but hush i had a friend already an she use to be the best friend u can think of until i meet this guy we use to go out together he will buy everything for all three of us she want to dance with him whine upon him and all that i never see it as a problem until she start show us bad face when we together beg me money borrow don't pay back an all that then the guy ask mi to married him she said i should not cause he's going to control my life an we are married an together she asking to let my husband find work for one of here friend i tell here no we still talk one of we married two years now and i don't tell here a thing some friends are best left alone they just want to use you.

YO, melesha how yu fi dis di tingg so, don't write much potwa, but luv fi read it. mak mi laugh nuh fart..... how yu mean di ppl. dem caan write english?????? yu waan read english guh sumwehelse.