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May 16, 2008
Can Money Really Make Women Happy?
By: Dimples
 "Money talks and bullshit walks" is a common term used by Jamaicans. Women no longer want "bruk pocket man". So men if you ain't rolling out inna yuh criss vehicle and have yuh money lock some women won't even bother to look your way. As Kartel's song says "Car man ina dem gal yah thought, dem change man like auto parts, no vehicle no romance". And me know some man can agree with him because some women nowadays just looking a man to con.
But the question still remains, can money really make a woman happy? Now you have some of these women who lucky fi find the money man dem, but dem a buss dem ass. Now a so some woman really love money that dem ago stay wid a man weh out fi kill dem? Now memba dis ladies, yuh no have no money fi yuh self yuh affi depend on the man fi everything yuh want. Some time me affi wonder if some women no like feel independent. Don't get me wrong me nah seh woman fid deh wid bruk pocket man but mek sure yuh have sumting fi yuh self so dat if the man run yuh or a buss yuh ass yuh can at least leave wit yuh dignity.
Me know seh a no every woman fortunate fi born wid money or have big job and the way Jamaica a run now it hard fi find a good job or get an education, but at least woman must try fi have sumting inna life. Me no know bout other woman but fi depend pan a man fi everyting no feel nice at all. So ladies, if yuh find a money man or yuh searching for one mek sure yuh av something can fall back pan.
Tell me weh unu think. Can money really make women happy?
Posted by yardFlex at May 16, 2008 10:49 AM
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Posted by: samm
on May 16, 2008 11:56 AM
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Girls dem fi wise up n stop depend pon man. dem can gi yuh money but that no mean seh you ago happy. some man gi yuh the money and beat out yuh backside. now tell me, How the hell u fi happy
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Posted by: Sharon
on May 16, 2008 12:05 PM
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Yes in a sense but no. Once a man who have money is involved with a woman, he intends to be a control freak over the woman. Where she must go, who she should talk to and must always be home.
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Posted by: GOODASALLMYLIFE
on May 16, 2008 12:33 PM
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YES MONEY DO MAKE OOMAN HAPPY CUZ NO BRUK POCKET CANT CHAT TO ME- LET ME TELL UNNO SUMTHIN A MAN AFFI MAKE @ LEAST 10 MIL OR MORE A YEAR TO HELP MAINTAIN ME EXOENSIVE LIFESTYLE...
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Posted by: GOODASALLMYLIFE
on May 16, 2008 12:33 PM
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YES MONEY DO MAKE OOMAN HAPPY CUZ NO BRUK POCKET CANT CHAT TO ME- LET ME TELL UNNO SUMTHIN A MAN AFFI MAKE @ LEAST 10 MIL OR MORE A YEAR TO HELP MAINTAIN ME EXOENSIVE LIFESTYLE...
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Posted by: Saint
on May 16, 2008 12:35 PM
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i av to agree wid yuh dimples, yuh c wen me know seh a me a work my own money me can hype pan a man. me will tek him money but mi always av my own
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Posted by: Loverlorn
on May 16, 2008 12:36 PM
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All I have to say is that women should have their own money; hence, when you are going into a relationship then you can look for someone with the same financial status...but money can also mean trouble and no money can also mean trouble and stress. Therefore, we need to know ourselves and what it is that will truly make us happy.
You can have money, but no love, ask yourself if that is satisfying enough for you; for some people it is. But others also cherish family, love, and freedom to express who you are in the relation, to be able to find someone who understands and support you mentally and physically.
I've always thought of women who only look for men with money as private whores...if the hat fits wear it.
My grandmother use to sey, "Be the man you want to marry". Translation, be successful, be strong, know yourself (self esteem), love your self and be financially secure, exhume self-confidence. Most women want all those qualities in there men, thus, achieve these qualities first for YOU.
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Posted by: slim d
on May 16, 2008 02:32 PM
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i was brought up my my dad to b independent woman, being independent that i am, no man cant talk to me like his f*ckdoll, or his little b*itch, money man are very controling, bcuz they feel their money gives them power, and tis little devil, takes no sh*t fr no-one. so a word of advice, we both have our things, we come 2gether to start a relationship on love and happiness, bcuz we are really not there for financial reasons but comforting each other
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Posted by: Nadine
on May 16, 2008 02:41 PM
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Loverlorn WELL SAID mi dads....Ladies yall need fi really read what this man wrote...this is a decent man's point of view...i suggest that yall read it and take it to heart cause it makes nuff sense.
10 million or more to maintain yu 'exopensive'lifestyle huh @ GOODASALLMYLIFE.
Good luck I hope yu find him...in the mean time the word is 'Expensive'
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Posted by: sexytc
on May 16, 2008 02:52 PM
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i agree with dimples, woman must be independent and at the same time, man nuffi mean.
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Posted by: Latoya
on May 16, 2008 03:26 PM
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Woman on a whole should be independent, get a good education hence, you will be able to acheive a good job because MONEY IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL, IT CAN BE VERY GOOD AND ALSO BE DAMN BAD.
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Posted by: Dahlea
on May 16, 2008 04:10 PM
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Money will not make a woman happy. It just provide her with some material comforts.
@ GOODASALLMYLIFE before you expect to snare a man who makes 10 million you , yes YOU! should be able to make that yourself. A man does not need 10 million to buy you HOOKED on PHONICS.
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Posted by: Brato
on May 16, 2008 06:25 PM
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Not women alone money can make any person happy, but in a relationship to be happy the money have to be combined with good personality, example no gold digger would feel happy with a rich man who cuts her ass every night, but then again who know she could buy pain killers.
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Posted by: Lovelorn
on May 16, 2008 08:15 PM
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@Nadine, hi hon, I'm a female, and I've lived up to every word my grandmother told me. I've always try to achieve things for myself, which in past relationships men have found me to be3 too independent, but it takes a stong confident man to deal with a well rounded woman. Fi real!!!
No requests!
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Posted by: tell it as it is
on May 16, 2008 09:11 PM
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Did you know that in the minds of some people in certain class of life that saying "I never work a day in my life and I look good every day" is actually an accomplishment?
the sister might've had a job and the man tells her to stop working. Of course she obeys. He provides everything for her and her children who are not his. Prep school, trips, clothes and lots of fine things.
I hate to say this: especially if the woman has a daughter. Watch out for sexual abuse. He makes you become so dependent on him and accustomed to the lifestyle that even though you know that your daughter is being sexually abused there is nothing you can do because if you say something you will no longer be able to dress everyday, send the children to private schools, continue living in "residential area"......
Remember sisters, money is power. Don't believe that you are the only one with whom he sleeps. Most of these little Jamaican "guys" with money don't just have conventional sex. They like to get freaked and more freaked. Pretty soon you are introduced to another lady and then another and another and before you know it you are sleeping with those ladies at the same time as well as who they have slept with over the years. I have 4 letters for you: A I D S
Money man don't use condom and because they can get any woman....well..... almost any woman, they get bored and then have sex with "guys".
Little is much as long as you have it in the Lord. I just tell it as it is.
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Posted by: Dugu Dugu
on May 17, 2008 11:44 PM
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all me haffi seh is big up to all di gyal dem who nuh haffi depend pan man fi tings love is about commitment is poor people have it worse but stick it out through the end no matter wat.
bless
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Posted by: tRINY
on May 18, 2008 01:15 PM
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I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T
OWN DAMN HOUSE,CARS,FLOSS
TRUST ME LADYS GO GET IT WORK HARD
AND EVERY MAN GONNA RESPECT YOU,YOU FREE TO DO WHAT EVA U WANT,YOU IN CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE
NO MATTER WHAT KINDA WORK YOU DO AS LONG AS U GETTIN THAT PAPPER.
IF YOU GOT MONEY YOU GONNA MEET A MAN WHIT REAL MONEY THATS HOW IT GOES.
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Posted by: g
on May 19, 2008 08:39 PM
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GOODASALLMYLIFE U TINK U BIG P*8SY VALUE 10 MIL NUFF A ONNU FI GO WORK I HAVE ONE DAUGHTER AND I AFFI TEACH AR THE VALUES OF LIFE GO TO SCHOOL GET U DEGREE GET A GOOD JOB AND BE INDEPENDENT A D*TTY HORE LIKE U GOODASALLMYLIFE PALUTE YOUNG DECENT GIRLS MIND
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Posted by: SWEETLADY
on May 20, 2008 01:59 PM
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bE INDEPENDENT AND SELF RELIANT LADIES. BEFORE YOU GET WITH A MONEY MAN JUST REMEMBER HIS MONEY WILL BE HIS B4 AND AFTER. MOST MEN THESE DAYS ARE NOT SO GVING ESPECIALLY IF THEY SEE A LADY DOES NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO BRING TO THE TABLE. sEX AND GOOD LOOKS IS NOT ALL. NOWADAYS MEN ARE KILLING FEMALES AT A HIGH RATE BECAUSE OF MONEY ISSUES IN THE RELATIONSHIP. SO IT'S BETTER FOR LADIES TO HAVE THEIR OWN. bE INDEPENDENT AND SELF RELIANT. iF YOU DON'T HAVE GOD WILL MEK SURE U HAVE.
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Posted by: gudluckwitdat
on May 22, 2008 06:42 PM
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"bruk pocket man"...das a no-no...he has to be at the same level as me or doin betta
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Posted by: DEeka
on June 6, 2008 01:51 PM
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exactly independence is key in life we shudnt try to find a man wid money to make us happy because men will come and go one should make sure they have there own money if thats wat makes them happy--- to fall back on and not have to depend on a man @!!!the cycle needs to stop
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Posted by: shenique
on June 6, 2008 01:54 PM
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exactly independence is key in life we shudnt try to find a man wid money to make us happy because men will come and go one should make sure they have there own money if thats wat makes them happy--- to fall back on and not have to depend on a man @!!!the cycle needs to stop
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