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March 24, 2008
Time for women to take a stand
By: Rootz girl
'Teck buddy gal', 'skettel’, 'bitch', 'hoes'... well the list of derogatory adjectives could go on and on that have been used by hip hop and dancehall artistes alike to refer to women in the dirt that's being called songs.
One would think that any self-respecting woman listening to these songs would feel disgust and great indignation coming to the fore as the words penetrate and then do the only acceptable thing – turn off the radio or get rend of the offending item.
But here is the shocker, there are actually women out there who find nothing wrong with the garbage being spewed out by these artistes, instead they embrace both artistes and the nonsense that are being passed off as songs.
To make matters even worse, they war with each other over the artistes that have shown their disrespect for them repeatedly in the songs they choose to do.
Am I missing the whole picture here? Is there no value placed on us women anymore? Has material things and basking in the limelight allow us as women to lose all sense of moral values, decency and some kind of pride that would see us demanding even a semblance of respect for ourselves?
This truth was brought home to me in no uncertain terms, as I objected to a particular song by Vybz Kartel. I thought the lyrics was crude and showed no respect to women. My greatest opponent then was another female, one who claimed the song "a teck life" and "him not talking about her"! There goes the theory of unity being strength!
If you are wondering why women are not getting the kind of respect they deserve – the answer is simple – they have stopped demanding it!
Instead of booing good cultural artistes or buying out the argument between Beenie Man and, Bounty and D'Angel, pick a good cause to let your loud voices be heard – boo for your self-respect.
Posted by yardFlex at March 24, 2008 11:37 AM
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Posted by: Steve-O 119
on March 24, 2008 05:41 PM
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Hit me up on the latest Sound Clashes,Iam Steve-O who learn about Dancehall Music,Running behind a Youth Name Day-Day with a Sound call G T High Power.
I grewup on 119 street in Harlem NewYork City.
Also LoveStar With Zsa-Zsa.
Bless!
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Posted by: ST
on March 24, 2008 06:53 PM
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Well said rootzgirl. I always took umbrage to some of these stupid songs with so-called lyrics degrading women. I never understood why women just accept it, and not reject it and take a stand against it.
I think its the same reason why they openly share men and have no qualms about it. Low self esteem.
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Posted by: §weeTuth
on March 24, 2008 07:32 PM
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kind of interesting that a blogger who's whining about derogatory names towards females would use a highly sexualized cartoon picture of a female to put beside her name.
i believe the phrase goes "pot calling the kettle black"
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Posted by: titi
on March 24, 2008 10:53 PM
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I Think part of the problem is the way some women DECIDE to PRESENT themselves, for instance, the photo Ms.roots DECIDED to choose to REPRESENT herslf. A Rasta women, in skimpy attire, tattoos, and a spliff in her mouth. Yes we women must always represent ourselves as the royal beings we are. And Men will respect you. Most men treat women how they allow themselves to be treated.
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Posted by: lil mama
on March 25, 2008 06:32 AM
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I agree with you 100% I wonder why no one has responded to this.
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Posted by: DiJahBritish
on March 25, 2008 06:38 AM
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Posted by: miizarebel
on March 25, 2008 12:22 PM
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@ §weeTuth i agree with you...
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Posted by: Mark B
on March 25, 2008 12:42 PM
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I never agreed with calling women calling our sisters B*s.
Now as for skettel and hoes. I am not sure which songs you are referring to. I remember T.O.K.'s song "She's a ho" And Bassie said "Bad man don't want no skettel." There is nothing wrong with saying that. A woman is not supposed to be a ho/skettel in the first place.
Deteronomy 23:17 "There shall be on whore of the daughters of Israel"
Whore/ho same thing.
Now if there is a song saying that all women are hoes/skettels or they use the word ho/skettel like they do with the "B" word, then I would have a problem with that.
One more thing.....
Women are never supposed to open up their mouths to let their "loud voices be heard." A woman is not supposed to be loud.
"Proverbs 9:13 A foolish woman is clamorous, she is simple and knoweth nothing."
There are ways to get respect besides being loud. Try being godly for one.
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Posted by: Nadine
on March 25, 2008 03:21 PM
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This is what I'm talking about.........Big Up Roots Gal, These are the topics that the young ladies dem need fi read....Mad respect fi this one!!!!
Anyways I'm am one of the females that get sick when I hear B*tch or Hoe and I do do catch myself at times using these words when I'm pissed off at another chick...however its still wrong and eveyday I try harder not to use these words...
We have to empower our females and let them know that these are not the correct words that should be used to describe them and their day to day activities, tell this to our sons ...our daughters...let it start at home....., no woman deserves to be called these words.....
Men I know that some of yu may say...Why change??? When there are chicks that are out there that ..Calls themselves these names(use to big up themselves) and When alot women today at like the scum of the earth.
BUT MEMBA THIS YU HAVE A MOTHER!!! Respect that!!!
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Posted by: Nici Knox
on March 25, 2008 03:33 PM
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Roots Girl, you can make a start to such terms by changing the pic, you are currently displaying for your column.
Every one has a right to their opinion and choice of music, and just because you listen to something at party and the "snaps" were pretty cool, Does not mean that I am loosing respect for myself or any other woman.
A song is a song, and until we all realise that music should not influence your doings then every one can actually start thinking for themselves.
I am sick and tired of ppl thinking that just because someone with the power of a micro phone says something, you dont have to follow.
Lyrics are just that Lyrics. They may make you laugh or cry...Feel like dancing. Keep it at that Nuh...just enjoy the moment and stop itting out against something that you are clearly a huge part of...Or change your column picture to compliment your Thought!!!
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Posted by: Dugu Dugu
on March 25, 2008 04:32 PM
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nowthe aritst them our jamaican artist who don't make much money u want them to stop when this just tump you last night eediot gyal they don't mean it american artist yes but not our jamaican ones this it coming from a woman(or i think)whos picture is of a half naked woman smoking a spliff
with dreads NO REAL RASTA WOMAN SHOW OFF A PIECE OF SKIN FROM DEM BODIES ANY RASTA WOMAN WEH DO DAT ANNUH REAL RASTA
god blass
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Posted by: Jamaicanlady
on March 25, 2008 07:32 PM
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MARK B. I have to respond to you. You say us women are not supposed to open our mouths and "let our loud voices be heard". It sounds to me like your from the caveman days, maybe even before then. You say to try being Godly instead, well I guess the female pastors who shout and "raise there voices to be heard" at the alter, are in no way Godly huh? maybe only a male pastor in this position is Godly and allowed to do this. Get over yourself, and please read the bible clearly before you come on here trying to quote it to support your foolish theories, especially the ones where you want us women to keep quiet. I'm not a loud woman, but trust me, I refuse to let any man step over me, or step on my rights as a woman, especially my freedom of speech!
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Posted by: REALITY
on March 26, 2008 05:50 AM
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Dugu Dugu!!!!
Dugu Dugu!!!!
Dugu Dugu!!!!!
and all u UN LEARNED FELLAS
LET MI SKUL YU BOUT REAL RASTA OOMAN DEM
MI WIL START FROM DI LAND WEH RASTA WAS BORN
ETHIOPIA
THE LAND OF SOLOMON AND SHEBA
DO U HAVE ANY IDEA THAT WEARING CLOTHES CAME IN THE PICTURE VERY RECENTLY????????????????????
???????????????????????????????????????????
??????????????
OBVIOUSLY U KNOW NOTIN BOUT RASTA SO THIS IS Y MI WILLIN FI TEK U TO MI FREE SKUL
BACK IN AFRICA THE LAND OF REAL RASTA
OOMAN ALWAYS USED TO WALK AROUND NAKED ONLY COVERIN HER FRONT ENTRANCE WIT A LIKKLE PIECE A ANIMAL SKIN OR LEAFS
AND ALSO HER ASS
AND GUESS WA????????????????
???????????????????????????
HER BREASTS WERE ALWAYS OUT FOR SHOW!!!!!!!!!!!!
THIS IS AFRICA FOR YU IDIOTS WHO KNOW NOT THE TRU RASTA BIZNIS
AND EVEN AS I WRITE THIS THERE ARE STILL CERTAIN COUNTRIES IN AFRIKA SPECIFICALLY THE EAST OF AFRIKA
WHERE WOMAN STIL HONOR THERE CULTURE AND KNOW NOTIN BOUT CLOTHES...
SO BEFORE U START CHAT FOOLISHNESS AND SHOW HOW MUCH EDUCATION U GET INA U MAIZE PLANTATION
CHECK OUT REAL HISTORY
MI CAN TESTIFY SEH DI QUEEN A SHEBA NEVER IMPRESS SOLOMON WHILE TOTALLY COVERED
KNOW YOUR HISTORY
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Posted by: slim d
on March 26, 2008 11:00 AM
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ok ROOTZGIRL lets get technical here, first u protray ur self as a rasta girl half naked showing ur *ss and most of ur breast, rasta woman wear covering clothing wit sandals slippers, tie hair, u smoke big split, i dont see the woman smoking that bold they r always looking spritual. SECONDLY VYBZ KARTEL is my dj i find most of his slack songs enjoying, u r critizing his words, but yet u r doing the actions, which is slacker 'singing about it' are 'doing it' u are an adult if u find one's song rude, please try other songs and leave those who enjoy it only, u have a choice here,no one is telling u to excepted these words if it offended u,different people different likes
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Posted by: quiet storm
on March 26, 2008 02:33 PM
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rootsy...do you realise that your image on yardflex pages looks like a skettel, hoe and tek b*ddy junky gal?
what is in that spliff anyway? who knows? the only people I ever imagine to be smoking and looking like you, would be smoking crack in their spliff, because they don't even have enough time to put on clothes before lighting up. It is a junky desperate gotta have it now vibe.
what r**s would carry herself like that?
and those calling this rootsgirl a ras - need to get a life and a clear definition of rastafari woman
do you somehow condone posing like a hoe, skettel and tek b**ddy junky girl while you preach something else? Or did the songs force you to dress and carry yourself like that - or have yourself represented in such a lewd looking way?
i saw your photo and since i am in no denial about the fact that there is such a thing as "The Sex Industry" - i just accepted you as another uninhibited sis who has nuff raw and nasty things to chat about all the time!!!!!!!!!!!!
practice what you preach girl...or come out from under your alias when youfeel like writing about the things that seem to influence you (and i say that again because of the way you choose to represent yourself in the photo on this site)
by that i see that hoes, skettels and tek b*ddy gals really influenced your sense of style
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Posted by: Reyna
on March 26, 2008 03:02 PM
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A true star, woman must take a stand Rasta.
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Posted by: a me real
on March 26, 2008 06:30 PM
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reality are u sure your name is not "roots girl having a hairy canary because folk have peeped her play"?
get a grip - rasta was born out of JAMAICA honey chile
nowhere in jamaican culture do women hang around dressed like you and call themself rasta
u must be want king man dem flip right up!!!
we love and respect african heritage and culture but mi dear - no where in africa does the culture promote women smoking weed with no clothes on and big tattoos and especially carrying on with the discussions that you like to keep
the artists can tone down on the rawness yes, but we the consumer love it up or it woulda stop already
u never know sey sex sells
take for example t pain's LOW - me love da tune dey, but me no love de strippin low low business, but the song is reality and hype no hell
only some real hoes get offended by those things - because the system have them operating in the dark, so in the light - they act like they are regular people and gwaan like they are disgusted by some tunes (sort of like you rootzgirl)
just like real gays get offended by gay bashing music
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Posted by: Nici Knox
on March 27, 2008 02:16 PM
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Reality...Cut the crap, seriously speaking there is a difference between AFRICAN culture and SKETS.
I had to scroll up to take another good look at the pic, because I thought for a second maybe REALITY aka ROOTZ is not so off...and all I saw was sex, I watch Discovery/travel channel, and TLC and never has any of those African women look like that.
They dont parade around like that, and ok so they have on leaves and their breasts are out. They also dont believe in the "now" so you are violating by using teh computer the internet the gateway to all that is bad.
Lets get this straight, I am eduacted (very)or so my degrees say, and I like music and I dont care what the lyrics say, if I like it I like it...just because Public Enemy says Kill the white man, doesnt mean I am going to wait till my grand dad is sleeping and murder him...GET A MIND OF YOUR OWN.
STOP HIDING BEHIND AFRICA, and the africans, PLEASE!!!
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Posted by: Young1
on March 28, 2008 05:38 PM
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I'n ga lie... straight up n point black "Reality" u sounded NOT very "intelligent" jus na.
1st ya talk bout where d movement came bout from, which was wrong and someone please correct me if i wrong but I thought it emerge out of Jamaica sumtime in the 1930's???
dennnnn u come tryin to COMPARE da pic u have up wid certain African cultures, NOT very convincing from d get go! "use ta do dis, n use ta do dat" blah! you let a Empress try dat in dese dayz n time see wha her own Kingman ga say bout it!
n through a source I read (with regards to da Nyahbinghi movement n d Empresses apparel) it gone sumtine like dis:
"She must be attired in modest apparel at all times and must not wear pants or revealing garments. Her head must be covered during an I-semble or when congregating among the brethren or outside her gates"
n i sure da same applies too d other mansions Tweleve Tribe or Bobo Shanti's, alike....
now u tell me which mansion you upholdin PLEASE so I cud go ta d Elda dem n inquire cuz u only, chile i'n even kno wha ta say u trynna prove....
OTHERRRRR dan dat... I see where u comin from wid ya blog doe...more life
Idance n Itection.
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Posted by: crystal
on March 28, 2008 07:46 PM
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If a person don't like gun ,slack tunes an for that mAtter they ban dem how the artist that sing them going to eat food most cultural songs good but everybody no like cultural you'll are trying to take fun out of everything even passa passa they trying to cut short i dont see nothing wrong with it .
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Posted by: min T
on July 26, 2008 04:27 PM
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i think in all,women should respect themselves and believe in who they are in society.decently dressed women earn lots of respect coz thez obviously know what they want and have.
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Posted by: min T
on July 26, 2008 04:29 PM
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i think in all,women should respect themselves and believe in who they are in society.decently dressed women earn lots of respect coz they obviously know what they want and have.
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