look i never agree wit processive men they are very dangerios to women and can result in death. men i am appealing to u all when a woman is leaving u it is always for a worthy cause so please leave us in peace, if u have mothers r sisters u will see my point.

the same can be said of women too. how many women you know have a 'thumbless grasp' on relationship long dead in the water...

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Is true thing u a talk man. Some man have the woman living wid them for yearson end, n they treat them like dirt. Cheat on them, beat them, refuse to make a commitment to them. And the minute the woman decides to up n leave, them carry on wid all manner of evil, n talk bout how if the woman ever leave them, what n what them a go do. OONU PRICK!! Give it up! If it's over, it r*ss over! Same go fi the ooman dem too.

Mi nuh speak fi all mon but di roots girl have a point.

Although it seems to me that this man was a liar and obsessive, she was wrong too, even more wrong. She saw him cheating, so she started cheating too, while living with the same man, instead of leaving him and moving out right away. Then she starts messing with this married man, thus putting his wife in the same position she was just in, you know, being second best to the man that's supposed to put you first, that right there makes her a hypocrite. She just cared about getting another man, not getting a man for herself that would be able to fully dedicate himself to her, with no attatchments, such as a wife and family. Then to make matters worse, she gets pregnant for him? what a wretch!! she may have been a victim, but she should be ashamed of herself, she now has made his wife the victim, and to show how much she cared about his wife, she had a baby for the husband. You aren't a victim, and this guy may have told lies on you, but I doubt he assassinated your character that much, because you seem like a homewrecker to me, and I don't feel sorry for you. Where this guy is concerned, yes he was wrong, but 2 wrongs don't make a right, and she was definately wrong too! She was lucky, because a guy in South Carolina killed his pregnant girlfriend/wife, and burned her and buried her in the back yard. So if you your still alive, but just have to defend your name, consider yourself lucky!!

I'm tierd of this shit tell the woman dem that too its bin 10 years I have this woman on my case I can't walk in jamaica in piece, and my baby mother can't even walk down town in piece cause a this woman when I go to jamaica I have to watch my head back because the x a walk wid knife fe me every day my phone ring people a tell me this girl deh pon me name if me no fish man me a sock pu**y boy me a diss me a that ever thing desgracefull a woman can seh to a man she seh it she all malice her oun family cah dem a tell her fe leave me alone fe ten years all know she cah lef me alone me deh pon road with me friend them him see me me afi tek weh me self cause him ago pick fight her family a seh no put u self in a problem walk her out me go a jamaica fi enjoy me self and me afi awalk out gyal thats not even the half I can tell u so much a wah this girl a put me thrue check this she lef and gi me bun we lef she breed and have 3 pitney two fe the man she live wid and one fe a boy a road me ge her her first two and have another one with anothe girl 2 years after me and she lef every weh she see my baby mother she and her friend dem trouble her and tell me seh she take her man she no like her and me never know the girl when we did deh she seh a me she love not the man she live wid or the other one weh breed her so u can take every woman story take some man story to

both sides to the story as displayed above. While men become violent and will kill when they cannot have their own way, women tend to be just scandalous and spiteful..

SOME MEN ARE JUST OVER PROTECTED AND VERY JEALOUS...IF I WAS A WOMAN "MI NAH GOH SEKKLE DUNG WID A JEALOUS MAN"...

JALady, said it in one..Di Man I hear what you are saying loud and clear.
Us human beings are at times not very nice to each other. My life motto "treat others the way you want to be treated"
I am not sure why you would live a with a person and be cheating with someone else, surely that is pure time wasting, heart breaking and totally deceitful and to me you are living a lie.
Being a person who lived with a violent man, I know the fears you have to go through. Each morning never knowing if they were in a good mood, be all loving, only to turn round 20 minutes later and you get a slap you in the face for the t.v being to loud, or your skirt to short, or the man living 3 blocks away was looking at you through a brick wall.
You see any person who is alive and kicking that has been through a violent relationship, will know if they look deep down that there was a warning sign very loud and clear (INSTINCTS), but being humans we think we know better and if we behave in a certain way, we can change that person, only to find ourselves in deeper waters
No man No woman should be physically or mentally abused by ANYONE. full stop.
We need to be teaching our children to break this cycle, any person who abuses your trust, your mind or your body, STEP FAR, simple. Don’t hang around waiting for that person to change, because the only thing that will change is your sanity, God never made us so perfect for another to abuse and destroy.
As I say God has given us something called INSTINCTS, it is there for our survival, it is there to warn us of danger
Life is to short and beautiful to be wasting time trying to control another person and why only give half of yourself you will only receive half of the other person. There is so much love we can give and receive, if only we stop all this foolishness, and game playing. There is so much more to say on this matter but time is the master and this is not a forum to air all my views, and I have to go back to work..
Love to all at Yardflex, Rootzgirl keep up Jah works

True comment. But some women are like that too. Boy sometimes two ppl weren't meant for each other and whenever that happen we'll just have to sing la-la-la-la another one gone another one come. Str8.

Di man I kinda get ur point, but lord it look like yu have something against quotation marks.

While I don't support men stalking women, women aren't supposed to be too quick to get involved with any kind of guy. Before you get in a relationship with someone you are supposed to reallly examine that individual to be sure if that is who you want to be with. Not get in the relationship and then when things don't go how you want it to go you leave. That is triflin. That other guy was going to extremes though... that was madness.

COME ON NOW! THERE IS ALWAYS TWO SIDES TO A STORY.

AND BESIDES, A WOMAN ALWAYS KNOW WHEN A MAN IS ABUSIVE AND POSSESSIVE.
A MAN NO JUST GET UP ONE DAY AND START BEAT A WOMAN. THERE IS ALWAYS SIGNS.
IS JUST US WOMAN TURN A BLIND EYE TO AN ABUSER.
BECAUSE UNNO FEEL UNNO IN LOVE.
THAT'S WHY B4 YOU GET INVOLVE WID A MAN TAKE TIME OUT TO KNOW DI PERSON,
DIG INTO DEM PAST. MEK DEM CALL YU FAST.
FIND OUT WHY HIM DID LEAVE DI WOMEN HIM USE TO DATE. IS YOUR LIFE AT RISK, SO TRY TO FIND OUT EVERY THING ABOUT THIS PERSON B4 YU DECIDE YU WANT LIVE OR HAVE CHILDREN FOR THIS PERSON.
BE A UNDERCOVER INVESTIGATER. AND WHAT EVER YU FIND OUT MAKE DI RIGHT DECISION.
BECAUSE AT DI END A DI DAY A YOUR LIFE AT RISK.

AND REMEMBER A GOD FEARING MAN IS ALWAYS DI RIGHT ONE.
BUT ALSO REMEMBER, "BEWARE OF WOLVES IN SHEEP CLOTHING."

Mark, to tell you the truth sometimes u meet a man and him act completely normal and then after a while him just turn green lizard. Trust me sometimes you don't know what u are getting into until u get into it. I was watching an american programme about a yr ago. This girl marry a dude. He was the sweetest guy when they weren't married (even the girl's family loved him) then after him start get jealous, beat her and all. The girl even took out restraining an order, but that wasn't enough. Guess what? The boy came to the girl's work place and douse her with gasolene and lit her. Suppose u see how pretty the girl was and how she looked like duppy afterwards. That made me cry. But she say whenever she looks in the mirror she only remember how she was.

A so me know say any man me a left, from him show me dem kinda signs de me a run fe de hills. Change me name, number, face and all/ go into exile. U have to use sleep and mark death.

two wrongs don't make a right but at least she had the guts to leave most women would have stayed with the man just to maKe him feel like he got his own way! men fail to understand the things we as a woman / women go through we give u our all and try to make the best life possible for you and YOU LOT (MEN) mess it up and when we as women come to find out and want to leave to go to some one or something better it bothers you why!?

is it because you knew how good we were, is it because we're beautiful and you dnt want no one else to have us?

WHAT IS IT I DNT UNDERSTAND.

LADIES WE ARE SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT NEVER YOU BELIEVE YOU CAN NOT DO BETTER WITH WHAT YOU GOT BECAUSE YOU CAN! TRIST ME I WENT THROUGH IT TOO

i think that some men are just so obsessive and they do not know when to quit. And they all thinnk that because they have money they can do whatever they want. Men whenits over leave the girls alone ok!!! learn to treat ur women good and they will stay ok!!!!