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November 02, 2007
Signs your woman is cheating
By Rootzgirl
 Homegirls don't cuss me out but fair is fair. The guys seem to think I am unfair and they wanna know the signs to look for when their woman is cheating.
Honestly this one here is real tricky cause women are just good like that. They could be giving you the whole bakery and it would be hard to notice anything amiss!
Still as good as they are, sometimes, just sometimes they slip up...but guys, you had better make sure it's not a case of you being too darned paranoid before you go accusing the poor woman of giving away the goods.
Here are eight (8) signs to look out for that will arouse
suspicions:
1. You know how you guys just love to refer to us as 'madda miserable'? Think back when last did she nag you about something you failed to do? Honestly, chances are some guy is being sweet to her which has taken the focus totally off you...watch it!!
2. Don't give a damn – Yup something is definitely amiss when she starts going all out in her appearance and if you criticize saying you don't like a certain outfit and she shrugs it off! Hello...it doesn't matter again what you think about how she looks...hmm, someone is happy elsewhere with that new look.
3. We now moves to Me...In the beginning of the relationship you guys were a team. If she is buying a car, she needs your input...a television she wants you there...if only just for company. These days you are lucky if you know what she is up to. On top of that when you ask questions surrounding her movements she tells you that you are 'crowding her'. I see it's time for a little more invasion!
4. Headaches increasing – Be careful on this one though. Some headaches are real! But if you were the type that lives for sex and suddenly she is having all these headaches that prevents some bedroom romp...you are definitely getting some signal here.
5. Tightness check...Guys this can only work if you are very alert. If you have been away for a month or even two weeks and when you return the pumps feel as if it was in action…you know the kind of resistance you should feel from an inactive vagina is not there...weeeell...it probably wasn't parked as you thought.
6. You don't move her in bed no more...brother, if your lovemaking used to do it for her and it's no longer cutting it...then chances are she had someone who showed her a better deal, making yours pale in comparison.
7. Watch the girlfriends – Guys this one will be the hardest one to catch her in, cause women really make time for their girlfriends and they cover for each other! But sometimes, girlfriends are just ploys to meet up with the other guys. She has her time with him, make it back to girlfriend's house and poor dumb you still none the wiser for these activities.
8. Waterworks – Every woman knows that when all else fails go for the waterworks! If you get suspicious, we cry about being hurt that you don't trust us and by the time we are through you are left feeling sorry for us...and of course we are one side laughing our heads off...yeah we kinda figured the tears would turn the argument around.
Posted by yardFlex at November 2, 2007 11:54 AM
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Posted by: True
on November 2, 2007 01:20 PM
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#2 is so true...
Rootzgirl, I can give you a 10th one:
If she wants you out of the house or don't care how much time you spend away, she might be using that time alone to reach out to her lover.
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Posted by: Theresa
on November 2, 2007 01:48 PM
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I am a woman and rootz girl you are right on the dot, hitting the nail on the head. but some times guys themselves lead us to cheat. so guys you cant blame a girl if you are not cleaning out the cob webs out of your closet
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Posted by: Tandy
on November 2, 2007 02:30 PM
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Mi nah lie, ah true yah tell.
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Posted by: Wade Cameorn
on November 2, 2007 03:25 PM
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Yu deh pan toppa a tings Ms Roots, but nuh all di while yu caa read inna dem facts deh.
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Posted by: Dana
on November 2, 2007 03:47 PM
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Fooling around is too risky(health wise) and takes up to much time. Most women are all about we in the beginning of a relationship...but the smart ones make it all about ME if he starts to act the fool. Appearance ...well me tek pride in my appearance period me naw mek no man attention dictate dat. Me wouldn't badda wid de tears and the headache. you not doing the wuk you just get fired!!!...it dun!! (however me judge de man pon more dan de sex) life too short to play games. Yeah I have covered for a girl-friend in the past. Me no have no remorse bout it.
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Posted by: Denise
on November 2, 2007 06:09 PM
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LOL i use the cry trick everytime annna laugh my butt off.
Men are fool fool when it comes to us and will do anyting to make us happy
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Posted by: roach
on November 2, 2007 06:41 PM
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Hey here is how I caught di b*tch.
(1) With out her knowing I changed the lock code on her phone security so when she tried to delete the number she couldnt, then I checked her phone for recieved calls and messages (with out her knowing of course) then I sent a text messages saying hi how are you to all the numbers when she was sleeping and guess what
I got back a message asking if she was alone so I continued the conversation and got all the info I needed.
They still havnt found their bodies hahahah.
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Posted by: Crissy
on November 2, 2007 07:24 PM
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Tru Tru thing..but u cant fight bun.. sometimes it MUST happen
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Posted by: kaydi
on November 2, 2007 11:24 PM
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mi nah lie, dem tings yah a tru, sum man betta kno sey the game play pon both sides
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Posted by: bossman
on November 3, 2007 12:50 AM
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dead wid laugh at number 5.
A true dat still !
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Posted by: jacko
on November 3, 2007 11:07 AM
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well you all have some good points. butt his is what i think if a woman wanna cheat not man can stop her so bro's, don't even think about getting cheated on because if its going to happen it will. but to the females you need to have character its not all about sex an u need to know that, sex is a very important part of nay relationship so if u dating a guy his sex is not good just move on with your life. but i think the real problem is that we as Jamaicans don't really date, we don't take the time out to get to know each other..
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Posted by: DJ
on November 3, 2007 12:39 PM
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Rootzgirl -
this one is da bomb but as much as you give them those pointers to look for, We all don know that they still not gonna find out unless the girls really want them too! LOL
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Posted by: kalisto
on November 4, 2007 10:13 AM
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here is more...she is cheating on u when she has a hot new girlfriend (who all the guys chat up) and makes excuses saying they were talking to her friend. when all di time she just pick up what her friend left over and loves the attention .
does not want to tell u who her new 'friend' is coz ppl chat too much....(dead giveaway - what r u hiding???)
lord have mercy, i am a man who had this done to myself by my ex of course....thing is she shoulda learn fi tell lie from me the proffessional,and of course a true playa never gets caught no matter what nobody know mi buisiness.
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Posted by: kelly
on November 4, 2007 11:19 AM
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well i can say this is definately right although i have to contest numba 5 lmao i have cheated in the past and the tightness check did sorta hard fi detect nutten cause when that guy was finish it left me swollen so i fely like virgin all over again lol later. yup no remorse here
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Posted by: Badda
on November 4, 2007 03:28 PM
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that is why we fuck and leave you ass in the first place, "girl you say you leaving because i am gangsta and you are living in fear"
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Posted by: D-Rated
on November 4, 2007 03:47 PM
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Some a dem girls a fi understand seh a nuh every man u can cheat pon and just walk out. Some man will watch u 24/7, drive round inna dem car or sen dem fren fi watch u fi see if u mek a wrong move! And sum man will just kill you. So women be careful. If u ago cheat left u man b4 u dweet!
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Posted by: Gigi
on November 4, 2007 10:15 PM
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Even tho u touch some really good points there, it is not always that a woman is cheating when she does this. She may just be tired of the man and his s*** and no matter what she do she cant get rid of him so she just start living for herself and nobody else.
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Posted by: shot-wi-fyah
on November 5, 2007 07:53 AM
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99 problems but a b*tch aint 1...SPECIALLY A CHEATING B*TCH...MONEY OVA B*TCHES(MOB)
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Posted by: NellyP
on November 5, 2007 11:20 AM
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i have to laugh on this one. #2 is on point, because the Man is thinking like his wifey/significant other is ok with him disappearing on her all the time and he doesnt have to explaine to her of his wear-a-bouts...but the truth of it is that the Woman dont give a damn because she is out there getting her groove on also.
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Posted by: HAKMAK
on November 5, 2007 11:58 AM
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No matter what, Rootz you're still bias in favor of women huh? fair is fair...my a$$. "you had better make sure it's not a case of you being too darned paranoid before you go accusing the poor woman of giving away the goods"...you forgot the "and vice versa" on the end of that statment. For every man there is a woman that does the same sh!t and can be just as cunning. Its a two way street. What I'm trying to say is, if you're gona write a fair article then do so and refrain from adding lil partial comments.. Thanks.
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Posted by: Rips
on November 5, 2007 01:24 PM
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And this is why I'm so quick to let woman go. I'm very observant, and I recognise some of those signs, especially the girlfriends sign. First confusing argument and first switch of vibes, I jus let them go. Rootzgirl, you right with those signs.
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Posted by: shanna
on November 5, 2007 01:50 PM
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stop chat crap no man can tell when u a give away the crotches
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Posted by: shelly
on November 5, 2007 02:55 PM
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I believe rootzgirl gave the man's side last week, and this week is the ladies turn, so in essence she is being very fair. hakmak!
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Posted by: shelly
on November 5, 2007 03:38 PM
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Unless you come home sopping wet? Then maybe he can tell, but other than that, he can't tell. Some men just don't have the time or need to drive around 24/7 watching their woman, and neither do some women have time or need to check dem man cell phone, show up at his job, blah, blah, blah...
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Posted by: PinkCattie
on November 6, 2007 10:17 AM
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I believe woman may start cheating emotionally first... u know when u man cant bother wid talking to u much and then there is just someone dat a listh maybe at u job... and u know what woman might not even attracted to the other yute but because him a show odda intest it build from dat
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Posted by: Nicole
on November 6, 2007 12:26 PM
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Mi gal,
Wha dat you just do, Mi grive you fart. Mi upset u a sale out.....my girl from here on out mek sure you stay true to the sisterhood or else....
Still you hit the nail pan the head mi gal :0)
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Posted by: Drew
on November 7, 2007 08:56 AM
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ONLY ONE PROBLEM ME WOUDDA HAVE AND IS WITH NUMBER 4...
BUT THE SOLUTION IS TO FIND A GOOD GIRL...
FROCK THE OTHERS LITERALLY... LOL..
ALLIANCE...
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Posted by: A wha really a gwaan inna jamdown
on November 8, 2007 08:19 PM
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@ Roach..... mi nuh respect da move deh. u nuh ready fe relationship. may be if yuh did put the same amount of effort that you did in changing pin and all on the phone into yuh relatonship u wouldn't a get bun inna u rass
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Posted by: niquie
on June 11, 2008 04:31 PM
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yeah yeah yeah,i have to admit that some of what u wrote is true but come on now we all know women rule at these things and most times men can't detect sh#@t!,numbers 1,3,6,7 and 8 are very true.8 TEK DI CAKE,my head eva a hurt me but thats anodda story,if me no want do it mi seh sumting else,#5 have me cracking up cuz i know nuff girls weh do it and the man nuh have a clue,not even seh two weeks more like one day is the man pon di side and the following day is the hubby.
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