Wha mi tink bout dat is a woman or a man should be truthful to their mate when it comes to sex so they can find ways to make it better instead of lying and cheating on their spouse.

Cheers mate! I believe a lot of women suffer in silence. I hope ur article inspires some woman, somewhere to get as fulfilling an experience as they most times offer their partner

Bwy,Rootzgirl story dem Hott.Yardflex unno have a new writer now????Dem one yah a talk de ting...

I do not agree with this. Masturbating is not the way to meeting your needs, thats just sex with self. However I do agree talking about it should be #1 and when your in the bedroom as a married couple then anything goes as long as you don't violate the bed and each other.

Rootz Girl sound like she know whey she a sey...wanda if she good like she sound? Yardflex unno a gwaan good from di odda day...keep it up!

Rootz mi like yuh vibes and weh yuh seh a true. Women fi get liberated and talk to dem partners bout sex (tactfully of course). But a waan show yuh seh, nuff a dem man yah get "ignorant" pon dem ooman if shi even bring up di topic "sex" to dem. Fuss ting some a dem love seh is because shi go try it someweh mek shi a bring it to him. Suh men also need fi wise up and question dem ooman pon her preference to. A suh di love go

rootsgirl mi want a f**k off a yo

this really works, my boyfriend and I question each other after sex, I sometimes direct him where to put his hands on my clitoris

Or, maybe its just you who don't get him going? Maybe as a woman is becoming less appealing hence him just pleasing himself ? Maybe because you are not keeping up the sexy you...you get less appealing hence him wanting only to hop on, come quick then say good night...?

How about you address the matter that we men dont enjoy sex wid our main squeeezeee because the main squeeeze wid di wife material personality is normally boring and thats why she get bun!!!!!!!!!

address that issue when u write make it an even playing feild and quit with the bashing of males dumb ass...some women just as men are str8 up WACKKKKK cant hold a position pu**y slack and jus plain old boring.

sooo when u mention one sex talk about the other thank you very much.

oh and by the way rootzgirl...not every women has the EXPERIENCE like you do.....some women actually wait untill marriage to start experimentation not erbady f**k down di place den walk like dem proud an have stripes an den come online an boast bout how dem nuh wet an all dat bullshit.

matters liek this shouldnt even be on a discussion board cause different strokes different damn folks

Root as a female spokeswoman u talkin absolutely the truth when comin to a relationship an sex, guys tend to lack of sexs with their partner.. But the thing with me i believe to have a good sexual relationship is to explore different parts of the body in that way she feel more intimate with u an she will never feel unplease bc some man feel its to just jump pon ah woman an have sex.. To me that not sex thats a quick thing, quick is only good when some one in the other room that more enjoyable.. but what is sayin to have a good relationship is to be very spontanous with u partner do things to make eyes gleedn.. an u will have great sex lifeeee...

Yow Madniss come aafa di idiat ting! Di lady just a keep it real fi some of di females dem weh have dat particular problem. Shi nevva classify all men and shi certainly nevva seh nuhbaddy fi have sex b 4 marriage...its all up to u di individual. By di way, it sound like shi mash yuh corn! A wanda if yuh is a man weh faal inna one a dah category deh? Star when yuh aggo talk bout di seh some a di woman dem p***y big, why it couldn't b dat a di man d**k small. Nuff a di man dem nuh come packing and know it but blame di women.

Star no need fi abuse di lady bout ar views pon di matter. From di comments yuh can see dat nuff female agree wid ar. Cause when yuh check it out, nuff a u man out deh nuh know how fi mek love, dem just know how fi have sex. And if yuh wife boring, maybe a yuh a di problem... poor ting mussi want tek up di matter wid yuh but fraid a di reaction like weh yuh just give to di article! Maybe if smaddy fi ask Matie bout yuh performance shi laugh to death and den yuh realize a just yuh money shi afta cause nutten else yuh have cant satsify ar! Yuh have men out deh weh can tek care a dem business propa, but star...it nuh look like yuh a one a dem. Di ooman throw ar stone and yuh quick fi bawl at di blow. Sitten wrong somewhere!

well me and my yardi man are alrite in that department he makes me cum everytime we do it he is a wicked performer lol and he appreciates my feelings in the bedroom as well

I have read all your comments and to Madniss who is making the assumption that I am having sex all over the globe and bragging about my expertise I just have one thing to say. I am actually very happily married, never been an all around the world person, but I have a caring partner who takes the time to cater to my sexual needs and I do the same for him. We have no inhibitions about being open to each other about what we like.
To the men who claim their wives are boring in bed and no longer pleasure them because of slack vaginas well aren't they being a bit insensitive here. Whose kids did the wives have that helped in deteriorating the conditions of the vaginas. Actually there are vaginal exercises that can be done to give it back the grip...help your wives and stop behaving like children!
And yes matters like these should be on the board cause it's the only place some women or men feel comfortably enough under the cover of anonymity to discuss their real feeling.
I have said my bit in defense of women, why don't you loud mouths men come forward and write something from the other side of the coin. It's not my job to represent the male of the species, find a champaion for your causes and hey why don't you challenge me in a He Said She Said...I don't back down

Madniss - ease up no man. You are taking it negatively. It has been known from the female chit chat circle that most females will go thru the motion but dont fulljoy the s*x. You mentioned different strokes for different folks but the bottom line about sexual encounter is that BOTH parties would like to enjoy it. Rootzgirl is just saying the woman should talk up, and if a survey should be conducted out there i guarantee that it will be shown that a man can come at anytime/most times..but he needs to get the female fully arose before she can come. And Jewel is right, some female is afraid to discussed with their partner because of his ignorance/ego.

MADNISS I LIKE YOUR POST TO ROOTZ GAL, me no know what the fcuk she feel like, i was going to address her just the same way u did, she one sided, she fe talk about the nuff gal them with some big puzzy a try run up pan man and a act like them a goodas and u cant tell them nothing as kaney west would say. too much gal out there with bay big hole and a try trck man say it tight, we tired of it, this is y so much man want young gal, them puzzy better, some gal u a finger them and u mine sharp a u whole hand wa go up in a them, disgusting.

Out and bad, some women have 2, 3, 4 or more children and things are not as they used to be before they had children... so you need to take that into consideration also...

Some men just don't know how to make love to a woman.. it is more than pounding.. some men could care less, if their women reached a climax.. it is all about them...
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what is that song, by terror fabulous, where he sings dat man a mek love to woman like a war dem a go....

some people don't even develop relationships with people... if you meet someone on saturday and by next saturday you are phucking, and then you are bored or not satisfied, and you move on to the next person and repeat the cycle...

all a di woman them a talk bout woman fi talk up supose we man fi start talk up nuff a onnu pum pum big like the world when man a work some a them u feel like u in a mid air a nuff woman selfish them only want u please them them nuh give a frock if u please or not

Who cares, we are all too pleasure focused. An orgasm is just that, an orgasm. I have not heard of an orgasm healing a disease or making somebody ugly, beautiful or making the poor, rich; but true abiding love can accomplish the impossible. How long can pleasure last before reality sets in. To be honest, I prefer to have a great man outside of the bedroom and a lacklustre lover, than a great lover and a loser of a man. To each his own still, if pleasure is all you want then cool. But for those of us who are looking for a spirtual partnership, sexual pleasure is not paramount. If more of us treated sex as the sacred act that it is this post wouldnt even be necessary. Bring back the sacredness to sex and reap pleasures abundant and lifelong.

ROOTZ GAL SEXY STILL ANYWAY NUFF A DE MON DEM A DRINK TOO MUCH HARD LIQUOR.PUT DUNG THE WHITE RUM AND HENNESSY DEM TINGS DEH MAKE MON LOOSE STAMINA.

i must say its a good article but you have to look at tins both ways,god created a womans body different from a mans body, it's easier for a woman to reach her climax than a woman( MAN CUM FASTER)if the first time u had sex wit a man he didn't satisfy you, why continue. you ladies have been applying so much preasure on us man bout how we can't satisfy you all, so its normal we can't focus properly when making love. you laies a bigger role to play in this matter,if u go lay down on the bed and watch the ceiling its obvious that he is just gonna jump on you as quick as possible and say good nite
we wud love to see our partner do at home the tins the stripers do on stage , so we won't have to there.most importantly stop feeding ur man spagetti , burgerking kfc etc
cook some good meal in other he could get the strength and energy you want him to have to satisfy you.a man can't help it if doesn't have d**k the size of a base ball bat and even he did you all would still be wanting more, cuz thats how you all are , always wanting more.
but i do believe that communication is the strength of a strong relationship
but you all got stop making it look like that men are the only ones with the problem where this subject is concern, both parties have to do their share in order to make it work,
ladies need to spend more time in the kitchen preparing heathy meals than the the time spent in front of the tv watching soap opera,
bring that sexy back, you know the same sexy you had in begining, fellas tek ur spouse on a date , u know like you use to do before you all start living together,rootz gal as an editor working wit the media its your job to address every issue from both point of view and not from the point you think you will get more ratings.

I have suffered in silence, but i will no more. To save some men pride we subject ourselves to bad and little wok from man. Sometimes i have more enjoyment using my imagination. From now on, before me give a man me goodies him have to show me his pipes, me wa know we me a deal wid, me we deal wid everything else.
a we dem feel like

me too usto tight fassy to take a woman with 234 kids into consideration, iman young clean and have this prosperous life ahead of me y frock some big hole gal because she chose to allow her hole to get big, black woman with grip me want, and not to be partial, woman if u know u have the one bag a kids and u feel like u loose off a the pums work it out, exercise it all day all night and make it right before u go a road a look man, man do not full joy a big hole gal, it na meck it, a the worst thing that u can come at a man with big hole, and some a them all get wet like its not normal, it fe wet but not too wet, boy it sticky but a so life set, u just have to search and search until u find Mr r miss right, a life, til then as a man me just cut an go through with caution and protection, and know say the father is guiding i, so black woman get u thing sorth out proper, rootz girl u argument sell out, good topic we can be on top of it all day, just like a good pum pum woman, it will keep us going and going and going till we cum, not me cum but we cum. as the saying go men frock them right and keep them cum ing, that is my philosophy

Word... YOW why rootsgyal act like all men dem , addi same way? You ever think say maybe there are some men out dere dat know how fi treat women right and screw dem right? When we buuss off, thats it we aint like yall, whe can take 3 man addi same tyme. Yall all talk frockery act like yall sufferin when most gyal deez days frock off so many bwoys dem punani wore di frock out. Den got di nerve fi say dem nah pleeze frockery you ah talk FroCKERY!!!..

And Jewel you are a stupid b*tch, dis aint link up radio so shut di frock up or ladys chat line Shut unno dutty r*ss mouth!

Yow hear wah mi a seh.

this subject cant be just genrealized like this man,,,,,,no one woman out there can be satisfied the same way and vice versa.....some woman dont like the play play ting dem preffer the rufniss some like all that emotional sh*t.....sooo plz unnuh speak fi unnuh self....

Rottzgirl mi si yuh mek sure she yuh married....yeh dats nice den y yuh neva mention the part about how many guys or how experienced were u before u got married??.

Women been on this DOGGING men for wayyyy too long....and im one guy that wont put up with the bullsh*t....dem quick fi pull the "HIM SOFT " card an attack mens manlyhood waaay too much....and who are the ones that say these things????? the damn skettel dem dat frock dung di whola di lane....

look i aint saying these things have been done to me but a nuff female mi roll wid yuhzimi entourage strong....an wi eva a reason an more time the things dem seh bout dem man....mi haffi wonda....cause theyll talk all that sh*t but ask them "WHAT DO THEY DO TO IMPROVE THEIR BEDROOM" they have not a damn thing to say.

we all have different things that apeal to us an wah really need fi happen is each partner needs to let the other knows what makes them tick....this idea of leaving everything up to the man is really ridiculous.

Wait a minute. a go address MADNISS at the end a my comment. 1st of all a no everywoman want di love making ting. me disagree wi did mastrabating but whatever float u boat sail on sistrens.

ME for 1 love di hot f/u/k me luv it hard non stop. no matta how my man a gi mi it mi still a tell him f/u/k me harder baby and dats just what i want...
NOW MADNISS some man have big hood an me no mean length wise u have some thick hood man out deh. my man now him wood about 7or7.5 inches long but it REAL thick it thick so till when me seh thick is like him could deh pan rude jam. At first when we start deal me couldn't handle it a just di head him could a push in. but now me adjust to it & not as bad as when we just start deal. now sometimes him expect fi jook everyday all twice a day.

From bout 6months now me start tink -?if him a dig me up twice a day & we no workout me affi go still only deal wid him because me cant deh wid no likkle hood man... after 2yrs now he deh my puzz it adjust to him size an a skinny 7inch long hood man might no work out. so ano pickney so much as some women been with a big hood man dat we want please by givin him it when him want it and the man f/u/k di woman constantly and den when dem leff an she run into a man that no fit di man a say things.

LADIES everywood is not for everyone find u fit

MADNISS me know what u go say now bout me a f/u/k nuff man wid big hood NO SIR. the man before dis one was average size bout 7inch an no thickness dis a di first big hood man me ever find and trust me always hear frenz a chat an did a wish me could run in to one & finally me find him and me love it... Bout the wife material thing well its been said most wifeey boring an country but i would say in my situation u would neva see me a road a wine up an act brawling or a skin out an a create excitement when me go dance me just rock side to side & chill me just normal but I know fi wine an bum pan it an grip it and to be honest whateva i didnt know before him just show me..... but if u see me a road u would tink me just regula. So u just have fi gwan till u find di one dat appropriate to be di wife an can be normal a road.... I am not sayin me pop down an no dress nice jus no in a di hype ting nor di ray-ray.

MADNISS a luv still u first comment mek me laugh till me week.. St. Maarteen ur comment is true too...... & Wade Cameron your comment sum it up.

I'M NOT TOO SURE WHY EVERYONE IS COMING DOWN SO HARD ON ROOTZGIRL...WHAT SHE'S SAYING IS TRUE. SHE IS NOT DOGGIN MEN, SHE IS NOT SAYING ALL Y'ALL SOCK, SHE AIN'T SAYING YOU'RE TO BE SKILLED PRIOR TO MARRIAGE AND SHE IS NOT SAYING ALL THE ONUS SHOULD BE ON THE MAN TO COME UP WITH IDEAS.

A WOMAN WHO KNOWS HER BODY IS NOT NECESSARILY A H&E.

ALL SHE'S SAYING IS IF YOU'RE NOT FULLY ENJOYING THE SITUATION YOU'RE IN MAKE IT BETTER FOR NOT JUST YOU, BUT THE BOTH OF YOU. IF YOU NUH LIKE IT WHEN HIM TOUCH YOU SO...MEK SURE HIM TOUCH YOU A NEX WAY. Y'ALL ARE READING WAY TO DEEPLY INTO THIS. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A SITUATION WHERE YOU FIND ALMOST EVERYTHING YOU'RE LOOKING FOR IN SOMEONE HOWEVER THERE MAY BE SOMETHING MISSING. PLAY GAMES, LEARN TOGETHER, GROW TOGETHER...THAT'S WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT. IF SOMEONE DOES NOT KNOW WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD...OPEN YOUR MOUTH...SHOW THEM.

WHETHER ITS THE MAN OR WOMAN WHO IS NOT FEELING THE VIBES (IT CAN GO BOTH WAYS I DO AGREE WITH THAT) BUT SOMEONE NEEDS TO SPEAK UP, NOTHING IS WORSE THAN A SILENT PHUK.

Djorn say him girl p...y big because when she a frock him can`t feel nutten