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January 08, 2007
Buffilous - Rules of Engagement with trifling niggaz
Brooklyn, Bronx, Fort Lauderdale, ah long time mi no talk to oonu, mi did a go through a bad phase again wah day ya wid mi wukless man and it crash me head. But instead of feeling depressed, mi just ah go get up and talk up a whole heap a tings 'cause the truth shall set you free. Confession good for the soul, can I tell you Jamaica?
Imagine, look how me a play decent, and mi nah go street from wah day ya, ah just mi kids dem mi a tink 'bout because fi tell yu de truth, mi gi him bun, mi get some, but it look like me shoulda give him the whole haberdashery the way him ah violate me wid him dutty batta ears gal dem a Jamaica and foreign. Yea, mi come fi talk the tings dem.
1. Be honest, give the people dem back dem tings when oonu fall out and the relationship dead. Don't steal, this go for the man dem likewise.
2. Now, ladies, doan be no fool fi no man. Don't put yu life on the line fi yu man if him is a baller and a hustler, doan run no road fi no man. Never call the po-pop on your man, even if he is deadbeat lowlife m-f$#er.
3. Don't fall in love. Don't breed fi dem, just like how dem leave the next one, ah same way dem a go leave yu out inna the cold with nothing.
4. On a different note, men need fi understand the PMS ting and relationships will work a little, when your girl is PMSing, she will murder yu, she will lef you 27 times in one month, because she just unbalanced emotionally…yu have to be compassionate and see wid har.
5. Don't let them put yu in situations where dem can use yu and mek yu tek the fall fi dem. Think about your kids first, dem niggaz ya no worth yu time.
Posted by yardFlex at January 8, 2007 08:00 PM
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Posted by: Maria from Liverpool England
on January 9, 2007 06:40 AM
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A dat mi agree wid, unno hit de nail pon de head
bless up
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Posted by: de
on January 9, 2007 09:15 AM
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RULES OF LIFE FOR THE FULES OF LIFE:
(I CAN'T BELIVE A MOTHER OF CHILDREN WROTE THIS)
(((((((((( U CANT PLAY DECENT, U R OR U AIN'T))))))))))))
TO ALL U JAMAICAN WOMEN WHO THINK ITS OK TO HAVE A CHILD (EVEN WORSE CHILDREN) GROW UP IN THIS CRAP, REMEMBER THAT WHILE UR 'LIVIN', UR CHILD IS GROWING, AND WATCHING EVERYTHING U DO.
THE BADGE OF HONOR OF 'BABY MOMMA' IS SO DEGRADING TO YOUNG BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN, WHY CANT WE SEE THAT WE ARE MORE THAN BABY MOMMAS AND WH*RES TO SCREW???!!!!
REMEMBER, AIN'T NO PEN*^ THAT GOOD TO SELL OUR SOULS AND OUR CHILDREN SOULS!
WAKE UP JAMAICA GUNS AND HOES ARE RULING UR COUNTRY!
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Posted by: out and bad
on January 9, 2007 10:46 AM
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hay buffilous y is it that we the readers can get a better view of u other that your o so sexy a*s all up in out face every day, we the readers want to c more of a woman of your status, the way u look, the way u talk, girl u set my sole on fire, i just want to c in your eye if u can inspire my heart desire, u little brown skin, woman i would love to c the joy your face bring, pull that up and re-wine on that one show u self and not all that oooo so fine ass we c all day every day, do it for us men, and fuck your baby daddy he seem to not know what a good sexy woman is worth, cum lets set the pace for him to follow. i personaly will let him know to the left with me machine in a my right hand, o u mean me we bus me gun fe that yes.
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Posted by: Breezy
on January 9, 2007 10:58 AM
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Suh my gurl a suh long it tek yuh fi ovastand all dat? Dem tings yah yuh shudda keep tuh yuh self b/c it mek yuh look like a claffy! Moretime tings happen to we b/c a d type a people we mix n mingle wid. Change yuh people, places n tings n yuh wi much betta aff! Chus mi..
Guidance
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Posted by: warlady
on January 9, 2007 03:14 PM
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All u know inna your life is drama....too much drama...wise up and try fi mek it on your own and stop look man tru dem have a nice car and a bling
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Posted by: crucian
on January 9, 2007 03:22 PM
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Facts of LIFE for the A**holes
some of U need a reality shock into the Life of your Jail bum NIGGERS thats F***king theirs and others baby mommas
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Posted by: DE
on January 9, 2007 09:38 PM
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LITTLE crucian
pAY ATTENTION:
IN SOCIETY A BABY MOMMA IS JUST A BABY MOMMA AND QUITE F**KABLE!!!!
THATS HOW SHE GOT TO BE A BABBY MOMMA BY LAYING DOWN WITH 'Jail bum NIGGERS' AS U SO ELOQUENTLY PUT IT!!!!
REMEMBER ALSO THAT IT IS OFTEN MORE THAN ONE NIGG, WHICH IS SO PATHETIC TO BE RUNNING BEHIND A MAN WHEN THE CHILDREN ARE LOOKING FOR AN EXAMPLE.
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Posted by: ucantbemetherastawoman
on January 9, 2007 09:41 PM
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Peace and Blessings to all...
From a more real and radical point of view, it seems that there are people that are in denial of their own mistakes in life. (HYPOCRITS)
If we are going to be better people and therefore live a better life, somehow we must find a way to learn from each other instead of being critics. Miss buffilous put her ten cents on here. Instead of taking the time to see the danger of which she speaks (the big picture), people act as if they can never find themselves in a F*&ked up situation, directly or indirectly due to going out on the limb for another.
I am not half as "outgoing" as miss buffilous, but I have definately been F*&%ked over by the everloving, peacefull, and so-called honest rastaman. Yes. Doing all and anything to please the king man...and what did i gain from this pirateship? wisdom and very bad memories. I give thanks for the experience because being great in life is a process, a hard, long, and tedious process. I just wish miss buffilous had posted this article @ that time in my life process.
bless up to everyone.
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Posted by: SPYDA
on January 10, 2007 04:01 AM
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BLESS UP TO " u can't be me the rasta woman"
ME A TELL UNU BOUT SEPARATING DE SHEEP FROM DE PIGS!
ME AGREE WID YUH... DEM "MIS-EDUCATED" FOOLZ YA A GWAAN LIKE NUTTEN NEVA HAPPEN TO DEM YET....
NO MAN... DEM WHITE COLLAR MAN WEH DEM OH SO DESPARATELY SEEK A WAIT FI DEM RA@S FI BREED DEM AN A F%CK BA**Y DE SAME TIME... (yuh a read mi "de at?")
HEYYYYYY WHAT A PRECKEH!
EVERYBODY AV DEM PROBLEM >SAME DOSE>
JUS DIFFARENT BRAND A MEDICINE!!! MEMBA!
GWAAN DO YUH TING YA BUFFI... IF THEY ONLY KNEW THE LOVE YOU SHOW YOUR BABIES...
MI AV A "REAL" NATTY PON MI FRONT LINE...;> ;> ;>
AN IT COULDN BE SWEETA!
(AN NOOOOO NUTTN NAH GO SOUR MI)
"LIVE GOOD AN GOOD WI LIVE WID UNUH"
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Posted by: eyes
on January 10, 2007 08:09 AM
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Greetings,My sister we as strong black women sometimes waste our energies on the wrong situation. A good relationship is sometimes very hard to find with unfaithfulness being so rampant. So ideally what we really need to do is seek FIRST the Kingdom of GOD and all it's righteousness and ALL necessary things will be added to you. The is my advise to all sisters and brothers out there seeking happiness. God in His wisdom and Might is All in All, HE will never forsake us and He has also left us with a Comforter who can easy all our pain. So Seek HIM first.
Blesssing for '07 in this month of Napthali I hope I have delivered "Goodly words"
Eyes
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Posted by: breezy
on January 10, 2007 09:26 AM
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Dis comment directed@ucantbemetherastawoman
All I'm saying is that from the way how she talk and potray herself,it jus mek it seem as though that's the sh*t she likes. Some man don't like a hype ooman. Most men like a ooman that show respect fi arself and ar man. Any ooman dat put C**KY b 4 ar kids need fi get wa d duck get!It don't seem like seh shi deal wid men of substance. It look like seh luv d hype man dem dat luv bax n kick up gal n cheat pan dem. Tell yuh the truth, dere is nuthin that I can learn from BUFFY b/c mi know wa good fi mi n wa don't good fi mi. No matter ow yuh luv a man, certain tings u nuffi put up wid.Once dem start disrespek yuh, it don't stop dere..Mek him farwurd wid him bullshit!!!. She may be a good ooman but yuh affi put yuhself n kids before c**ky..When c**ky gone, yuh kids still deh deh wid yuh. I bet if she have dalla fi each time him cheat pan ar shi wud billionare. If yuh a read dis Buffy medi pan it b/c know a chue. Stop look hype man n humble yuhself. Change certain tings n u wi si seh Jah have a better plan in store fi yuh! Yuh is a ooman n u better dan wa yuh a get. Wise up!!
P.s, The first change u need fi mek is change your pic b/c it nuh mek people tek yuh serious. Is jus eye candy fi d man dem n das y u innna d situation u inna..
Guidance
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Posted by: out an bad
on January 10, 2007 02:56 PM
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buffylous tell mavado and kartel them fans wa them done the war thing, because it reach a stage now where mavado and footahype now wanted by police fe question, them run go bate up them self like two fool, reports r they where seen in a car a fire gun shat after some big man studio where the man family live an thing his dis the order, now if the man teck it up on him self to defen it u ca wrong him,so buff please tell them stop the war bus thing it wack.
BUFFILOUS FI TEK WEY HAR SELF FI DI NEW YEAR.
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Posted by: calaloo
on January 10, 2007 04:39 PM
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Breezy you right. But a who sey dat a Buffilous though, a can all a picture she download and post it dey. Mi no think sey she would a so bright fi go mek fi har real face show (whe she have so many friends and people know har. Something tell me sey a nuh she dat, but me stand to be corrected
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Posted by: Bountarian
on January 10, 2007 10:12 PM
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Hail!
just want to say i did find some of the comments in here refreshing especially from therastawoman. As a man I will admit that we have lost our way when it comes to displaying or just being what should come more natural to us that anything else and that is being ourselves, MAN. Yes we are to be blamed 99% or us for the 99% of times we have let down 99% of women, kids, parents, ourselves and i could keep goiing. But women of this room, please remember you are smarter than us and we actually learn from you, so not because we are being caught with our hands in the cookie jar 99% of the time don't mean that women don't play a role because when a man cheats 50% of the time a woman knows whether a wifey or matey. I have a problem trusting woman but its not all woman that i don't trust it just took me a while to realize that I liked flirting with danger and act ignorant to it. I just believe that right now most of us just like living in denial and don't mind the matrix that we were not coerced into."the matrix" for argument sake is just what our friends believe is sexy or look good is the only thing that matters and not how we truly feel. For man to sleep with as much female as he can and win stipes and the woman fi bleach and do whatever it takes to fullfil a man's phantasy of what he thinks she should look like and dress like leaving nothing to the imagination. Mi a man an yes mi luv si a hottas a gi mi a free pre when mi a roll, but then a one thing comes to mind and it don't have anything to do with how can i compiment your life and unite and become one. A man run out pon him family a woman teach her daughter not to trust man cause she no need one because she her mother raised her and the rest of kids alone. You know what that just start? All i'm saying is that no matter how bad we get stomped on by our love ones, someone out there got it worse and it don't make them any less smarter than you or me, we really need to decide to break the chain and don't let motives of sex, bling etc be our reason for entering or staying in a relationship.
ps we need to be honest with each other too and communicate more if is just a kill let it be known, and if so we should listen.
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Posted by: Nadine
on January 11, 2007 09:44 AM
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MY GIRL!!!!!
Y you a live so careless????
All your post are about how di man dem a use yu yu cant wise up yet. YOU IS A GROWN A*S WOMAN and yu letting all these likkle dumb man dem a USE YU.
AND YU GOT KIDS!!!!!! you no si that even though yu have "BIGG BA**Y" and "LIGHT SKIN" the man dem still a use you, thats to show yu something is WRONG. Yeah the man dem want a nice looking girl but if yu cant sit down and REASON WID YU MAN and have yu head pon yu body yu just gonna be another HOE to dem, NO MATTER WHAT U LOOK LIKE. Dont get me wrong yu might be a good girl but yu make MEN the CENTER OF YOUR LIFE.
Change that and just focus pon yu kids dem.
I'm not here to judge no one, yu si mi, cause mi been through it tu but dammmm, there comes a time yu need fi look pon yuself and shape up!!!!
MY GIRL!!!! tex care of yu self yu here?? Cause everybody have to stan up pon dem own, A NEW YEAR stop keep up the foolishness.
BY THE WAY y wi need fi look pon yu ass all the time, can we see yu face. LADY UP YUSELF.
PEACE!!!!
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Posted by: Breezy
on January 11, 2007 12:25 PM
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@Nadine! Yuh wa mi a seh still..All dat happenin to ar, shi hold ar own destinity inna ar ahnd and is like she cyaan seit..Bwoy mi a tell yuh..N e ways a suh it guh.
@Bountarian. Mi si wat u a seh still Dada but moretime yuh affi si a hot gal n pass ar b/c sometimes a nuh everyting look good good still. Das y wi hab suh much baby madda n drama roune d place.1 fuck usually equal bay drama b/c man/ooman end up sex each adda n get caught up n dem really neva even wa b 2geda. It was just a sex ting n now it gawn bad.Seriously still man/ooman can seh yes a jus a 1 sex mi want still but u n I know it don't always end up suh..A lie? The cycle naw guh bruk unless we all reallize it at d same time n it doesn't seem to be happening so we will 4eva have dese issues..Yuh si me, mi learn from people n d world n most of all, my own mistakes but still yuh don't mek certain tings reach a harsh point!!
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Posted by: Breezy
on January 11, 2007 12:28 PM
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@calaloo
Yeah it mite not be she yes but why put dat pic up? Wa dat all about? Of all d pics in d world, shi wudda put u smady else ba**y..lol.Mek no sense but a suh it guh..
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Posted by: ucantbemetherastawoman
on January 11, 2007 01:07 PM
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Peace and Blessings to all...
Firstly..."JUDGE NOT THEN YOU WILL BE JUDGED"
Secondly, let me have ALL of you know that no one knows when their judgement will come.
It is no good, and of no benefit to anyone here, to talk about Buffilous (NOR HER CHILDREN!) in a negative and demeaning way. I know for a fact that Buffilous takes impecable care of all her seeds. (THEY ARE GROWING BEAUTIFULY) She is an excellent mother.
In declaring all of that...is to show that STRONG BLACK WOMAN can go through the worse of things and somehow still have the capacity and the capability to rise to the occasion. Whether it be in relationships, family crisis, or career, just to name a fraction of the whole.
Yes. Buffilous made an entry that some of you may dislike, but keep in mind that you're on the f*&$king internet, and this is an entertainment forum. Refrain from taking this S&%t way too seriously. The entry surely does not reflect a general and true image of buffilous. Anyone of us can come on here and post whatever we feel like. Why do we care so much about Buffilous that we would take time out to crash and bash her? Asking to see her picture? Maybe we don't have problems of our own. Maybe we have nothing better to do? Reserve your energy for more positive thoughts.
I will depart on a positive note...Accept and respect individual differences. Try to assist in the event of a bad situation, instead of trying to make a bad situation worse.
BLESS UP TO EVERYONE !!!
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Posted by: ucantbemetherastawoman
on January 11, 2007 01:27 PM
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@ Breezy (LOL)
You are RIGHT in everything you mentioned.
How about the notion...that we must take accountability for ourselves. Wear a CONDOM each time we have intercourse. We women always leave it to the man to make that very important decision for us. We expect them to bring it along, to put it on, each time. We need to ignore the stigma attached to a woman when she has her own pack of condoms in her handbag. That can be compared to carrying a bulletproof and disease proof vest to protect ourselves, and should not be looked @ as a bad thing.
The men who get caught up in babymama drama is responsible for themselves just the same.
There is nothing wrong if two people are attracted to each other and want to have intercourse. Wearing a condom will solve everything else.
(Single Mother Speaking)
BLESS UP TO ALL !!!
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Posted by: seriously
on January 11, 2007 04:34 PM
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all waah gwaan....the problem is this....BIRD HEADS OF A FEATHER FLOCK TOGETHER in the same nest lol
thats why so much passa passa sourround this buffilous female....cause a dem type she hang around so its gonna deffinately be in her life.
i bet her man is some hustler or money man or some player of the sort....WHY????cause she waah big car fi drive and hot man fi spar wid a party..she naah look pan di man inside....and miss lady i don't know WHYYY you women think that hustlers will change their ways?????why you think a hustler is doing what he's doing????to GET WOMEN AND CARSSS and to show off with his friends....POINT BLANK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
there was never a faithfull drug dealer or baller in history suh mi nuh know WTF some a unnuh a think bout lolol
Untill you change ur surroundings and the ppl you hang with and start uplifting urself aint sh*t gonna change in ur life.
and about this PMS ting......a woman of ur age BEEEEN going through PMS suh yuh used to the sh*t by now.....suh nuh come wid dat r**s bout understand this an ray ray.....ya'll use dat sh*t as an excuse way too much cause unnuh know some man wi easy demself once dem hear dat....but unnuh can guh dead a bush wid dat sh*t. STRAIGHT!!! as a teen ur a*s wasn't acting up when u used to have it....suh why as a grown a*s woman when u should be used to the shit ur acting all moody around that time???
F*&%K dat....a bunch of bull....i ain't saying some a yall dont get seriously affected but most of yall women donttttttttt.
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Posted by: Ian
on January 12, 2007 09:01 AM
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hi beautiful mi like wah mi see just keep yuh head up and do your ting
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Posted by: Nadine
on January 12, 2007 09:04 AM
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@ UCANTBEMETHERASTAWOMAN
I understand that this is the internet and that no one needs to be JUDGED!!!no one at all.
But you a pretty up things too much, THIS IS REAL LIFE and she placed her shit out ya and her shit is DUTTY!!!!! someone needs to tell it to her as it is, no pretty up thing not working.
And about how she LOOK!!!!! I myself feel like as women we go through enuff shit daily and fightn for respect and to see her A*S IN FRONT OF MY FACE like that I DONT LIKE IT!!!!!! thats my rite to sat that. I dont see where anyone ia tearing her down, people just a sey she have KIDS!!!! and she needs to get it togeather if not for herself for her f**king kids dem. We need positive vibes from females now a days, cause the youth dem not seeing Enuff, STRONG, POSITIVE,FEMALES and mi tired fi hear dem a call wi "B*TCH" . BO**OM line she needs to GET IT TOGETHER, I dont see which part of BUFFILOUS is a strong black woman, she could become one, rite now SHE NOT and thats WORD.
I am not PERFECT but I was in some situations and pulled myself out, so mi NO FEEL SPORRY FI HAR!!!
Keep picking up for her so til she start
SLEEP WITH U MAN den u will sing a different story.
PEACE AND LOVE TO ALL
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Posted by: Breezy
on January 12, 2007 09:05 AM
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@ucantbemetherastawoman
Mi ovastand all yuh seh n u right still chus mi. But, in all reality it nuh always guh d way wi want it to go. We as humans affi smarten up yes but das jus wishfull tinkin pan my
part..lol..Ovastand dis dwo. Mi naw bash BUFFY but mi jus a keep it real sistren. Yuh lay yuhself careless n u get all dis drama. Is not saying I'm better dan ar b/c mi nuh betta dan nobady but at the same time dem type a man mi nuh mix wid b/c dat a nuh my type and mi nuh drawn tuh dem..Mi si d destruction dem cause pan ooman n pitney..
Mi neva seh Buffy wasn't a good ooman/mother but my POINT is/was that if she want a better more relax life, she need to change her PEOPLE,PLACES AND THINGS once again. If she really need a companion inna ar life, try a diff type a man. It jus don't seem like d hype man/baller dem n u gree. Try dating someone that u would narmally not date. Or if yuh nuh wa baddda wid nuhbady, just gwaan ole tite wid yuh kids..Jus memba seh keep d focus. Mi realize from long time now that if u stay roune negative energy, that is all your life gonna consist of. Once u change all that your life start run smooth suh still it mek yuh frade. Das all. Yes it is a entertainment site yes but if she neva want wi comment then shi neva wudda put ar business pan FULL BLAST. Mi is a very opinionated woman when it comes to things like this b/c normally I don't even post comments on yardflex, mi jus read, cut n guh chu.But, mi did a feel ar energy suh mi feel as dwo mi need fi drap sum knowlege pan ar. MI an ar lifestyle VERY diff but wi a still ooman. Yes we are on the internet dat doesn't mean she cyaan read a commment n learn from it..Awrite mi dun now mi a guh mek sum milo n guh li dung..lol..
Jah guidance n blessing...
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Posted by: serious
on January 15, 2007 02:12 PM
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u need fe try am man like mi,u look good,u have a visa?halla back if u do!
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