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July 14, 2006
Ninjaman to Tie The Knot, But Bride Having Second Thoughts
NINJAMAN AND HIS 'RUNAWAY' BRIDE
By: Claude Mills
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 In the world of dancehall these days, it seems everybody's going to the chapel. YardFlex has just learned that Desmond 'Don Gorgon' Ballentyne is planning to tie the knot next Saturday with Wendy Brown, a woman he has called the "love of his life", in a special VIP invitation-only event at Beaches Boscobel in Ocho Rios, St. Ann on July 22nd .
"I am getting married, I am in love, me is a loving yute, Wendy is the one for me, ah just so it look and so it seem. Mi love her completely," Ninjaman said.
This is not the Don Gorgon's first time down the aisle, but the first ended in divorce three months later. However, the approaching marriage may well be in jeopardy before the walk down the aisle because the bride-to-be is getting jittery, and if you listen to her friends and family, she has all right to be.
Wendy Brown is the sister of his babymother, Keisha, with whom he has fathered a six year-old son, a fact that has set off a firestorm of criticism in the parish of St. Ann. The impending marriage has apparently driven a rift between the sisters, and the Brown family is reeling. In an exclusive interview with YardFlex.com, Wendy explained her feelings and her relationship with Ninjaman.
"Ninjaman and I had been friends for years, but a year ago fell in love," Ms. Brown, 34, said. "It's all very difficult, I have lost my family, the only sister who I love, and now I am about to lose my children, because my family is raging about. He is a nice person, and a good person, it's really rocking me, the world is against us but I am so much in love."
Ninjaman broke up with Keisha four or five years ago. Keisha and Wendy have not exchanged a word in several months.
"I was the one who looked after him, that's when it happened, we fell in love, but at first, we never acted on it, but we're human, things do happen, he said he doesn't see another woman for him. I am the only person he listens to, I've been able to get him off drugs. I am sure he is 100 per cent he is off drugs, I test him, I get him upset, leave him, and normally, when he's upset, he turns to drugs, and that has not happened. We are noth a little confused, with all the family coming down. I want to get lost."
Asked why she is estranged from her sister, Wendy said:
"Me and Keisha don't talk for several months because of this. I can understand the situation, she is afraid for me. She's been through a lot with him. But the way I fall in love with him, people look at it and say 'Wow! How could she?'. But once you get to know him and know how to deal with him, he can be the nicest person in the world. Nobody is on my side, my girlfriends say it's my decision. My children are very upset, (aged 16 and 10), people have been saying this and that to them, and now, they are not here in Jamaica. They are staying with my mom in the United States. I just don't know."
CONSPIRACY THEORY TO STOP MARRIAGE
Ninjaman's ex-wife is reportedly coming to Jamaica to halt the marriage. According to Ms. Brown, his former exes are coming in to island to try to stop the marriage because they "are afraid of him but they are still in love with him".
Asked if she is not afraid of him, Wendy responded: "When he gets upset, I just hug him, and he gets calm. There's no reason to be afraid of him, I have seen him do terrible things where I should be afraid of him, but I am not."
Posted by yardFlex at July 14, 2006 02:31 PM
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Posted by: Smaddy
on July 14, 2006 04:09 PM
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Well, this is so common, maybe I shouldn't even quote on it, but man, this woman is clearly putting her man above her own flesh and blood, sister, and children included. If it's not even to stop this for your sister, then at least do it for your children. Honestly, you should be ashamed of yourself. Have you ever thought about the children you and him may have in the future will then be not only brother and sister to your sisters child, but also cousins? man, people need to think before they leap. The fact that her sister dated him, should be enough, but they also have a child for him, that's even worse. This can't go anywhere good. Also if he knew that you were the only girl for him, then why did it take him 27 kids and 26 women to finally decide you were the one, and you happen to be kin to one of his kids, and one of his baby mothers? Men will say anything to get what they want, and regardless Ninja man is no different, and his track records shows he's no saint, even when he got baptised just to show the world he wasn't afraid of going under water, but it wasn't for the reason you should get baptised, to get closer to the Lord. In my opinion, this is not a good idea, but hey, last decision is up to the bride to be! In this case I might say, "yu caan tek poison and depend pon busy", you knew this was a mistake and a risk, and you've lost alot over it, and there may be no way of getting it back, especially your sisters trust!
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Posted by: AJ
on July 15, 2006 01:09 AM
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ninjaman is man,a soul & human, this combination creates a mix that's uncontrollable at times, we as outsiders see the pitfalls of this type of relationship, who knows, in the end, how it will play out.what matters most is that through the teachings of "the golden rule" we have no right to judge and they, not you, will pay the consequences. let people be how they wanna be and worry only about yourself. AJ XRCN am1470 S.D.,Ca
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Posted by: Tash
on July 15, 2006 04:46 AM
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I am sorry to know that you have lost all your family over this, yes sometimes stuff happens I am sure that telling you how horrible your situation is isn't gonna make you feel any better, and I am sure you have beaten yourself bad enough already, but I will say this we all make mistake and if we don't learn from them then we are prone to make the same mistake again, and with the part of him saying it's because of you why he off drugs that is just not true,he needs to be the reason why he off drugs and no one can make that decision for him not even you ,and I think you should tell him that cause you know whats gonna happen the next time he starts using again he is gonna say its your fault,and you are gonna believe him,I really do think both of you needs to spend some time apart to if its even just to see if you can be without him socially and if he can stand up on his own without you being there, GOD BLESS AND GOOD LUCK ON YOUR DECISION.
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Posted by: Wade
on July 15, 2006 11:34 AM
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Congratulations to you both. If you love each other that's all that matters. You can't please everyone in the world.
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Posted by: a lie
on July 15, 2006 01:56 PM
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please desmond cheats on wendy all day everyday. im sure she doesn't know about his most recent baby with roxanne who lives about 5 minutes from wendy. I don't understand how she went and slept with her sisters baby daddu thats nasty she was all pregnant with his kid the other day and lost it. im going down for the weddin too and i will be mashin it up. ive called him and she has answered the phone and bi tell her who i am. if she only knew what desmond does to her trust me. he was all tryin to breed my friend when she was in jamaica in april for easter the only reason he rates wendy is because she took him off drugs. all when wendy was in new york he has that gyal rhonda livin in his house desmond is the type of person who doesn't want his woman to be in contact with her family he wants them to himself. he's known for that. tells the woman dem dont talk to their family
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Posted by: Monie
on July 15, 2006 02:54 PM
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Is Jamaica that short of man, that she had to take this drastic leap for her brother in law. I could see if he looks good and have a couple of zillion dollars, then maybe that would have been worth it. But he is not, and now she lose all her family for this......
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Posted by: Keyfearless
on July 15, 2006 07:33 PM
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I want to know who in their right mind would marry ninja man. This guy looks like a fool and a drug addict. I would not only have second thoughts if I was this girl,I would run. I would not even have given it a first thought. This man is a baby magnet. Girl, run, run, and run some more.
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Posted by: Same one
on July 16, 2006 10:27 AM
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Wendy, I dont know what happen to you, if my fren was with someone an dem lef den dat deh man a come look me, me nah deh wid him cause dat no look good much les me sista no sah dat no right worse dem deh so long and most of all a child is involved. Based on what i have read above you are confused your family and kids is on the line make up yuh mine and do whats best for you.
Happy Marriage if un no do get married.
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Posted by: ur lyin
on July 16, 2006 01:17 PM
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how is that lady wendy gonna go do that to her own sister? that's crazy man trust me any ways i even heard she obea him i dont know how true it is but she has him a way still. with all this like the person said in the top he just had a baby in easter i think it was good friday the baby was born that is correct wendy was in new york around that time and pregnant till she lost it. ninja man wont stop cheatin on wendy sorry wendy dont choose man over family ur just gonna be of the many
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Posted by: Someone hurt
on July 17, 2006 06:13 AM
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Wendy if I were u, I'd find out who ROXANNE and RHONDA are - somting a gwan....!!
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Posted by: slakka
on July 17, 2006 07:26 AM
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WENDY,WENDY, OH MY GOSH.I CAN'T HELP BUT FEEL SORRY FOR YOU.WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW IS THAT CHILDREN COME FIRST BEFORE MAN.WHEN DE MAN IS GONE BOUT HIM BUSINESS,THE CHILDREN WILL ALWAYS BE THERE.YOU NEED TO RE-EVALUATE YOUR LIFE AND PUT GOD FIRST AND THEN YOUR CHILDREN.NINJA IS JUST ONE OF THOSE TYPICAL JAMAICAN MAN WHO THINK HAVING 50 KIDS WITH 50 DIFFERENT WOMEN IS A WAY TO PROVE THAT THEY ARE A MAN.THE ONLY THING THAT PROVES IS THAT AIDS IS NOT A MYTH IT IS REAL AND THIS IS A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF HOW THE DISEASE SPREADS.THINK OF YOUR CHILDREN FIRST, NINJA IS FOR LATER. I ALSO FEEL SORRY FOR YOUR SISTER.DON'T WASTE ONE MORE MINUTE OF YOUR LIFE WITH NINJA, GOD WILL BLESS YOU WITH A HUSBAND ONE DAY.
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Posted by: ninja man himself speaking
on July 17, 2006 09:10 AM
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all u jesybell and and parisite hop off a me fender nasty negas,the better fcuk will alwayes tell,how u all know the woman p#$$$$y no good? when woman pums good man na go no where leave it,so all u people want to talk me ninja na go no where,but in a the good hole of my woman. if me all wa married a my thing that,all who wa mash up this cum,me gun big, and i will say no more.
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Posted by: showsky
on July 17, 2006 12:03 PM
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a who seh bad man caan fall in love go de ya ninja man!!!
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Posted by: Nuscy
on July 17, 2006 01:24 PM
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oh Wendy, do what your heart tells you to do. people will always remain people, don't let them put you down nor change your mind when you know what's best.....anyways just ask your sister to forgive you. and just leave the rest to JAH.
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Posted by: slakka
on July 18, 2006 12:13 PM
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NASTY NINJA MAN, GO GET A LIFE AND LEAVE DE DRUGS ALONE. YOU ARE NUTHIN' BUT A HYPOCRITE AND A LOSER AS I SAID BEFORE, YOU ARE JUST A TYPICAL JAMAICAN MAN WHO THINK THAT HAVING 50 KIDS WITH 50 DIFFERENT WOMEN IS A WAY TO PROVE THAT YOU ARE A MAN.IT ONLY PROVES THAT YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A SPERM DONER.IT ALSO PROVES THAT THE WORD "CONDOM" IS NOT IN YOUR VOCABULARY.DE TIME YUH TEK A WALK AND FUC..... LIKE A DONKEY YUH GO DO SOME RESEARCH ABOUT THE KILLER DISEASE CALLED AIDS.DO YOU THINK YOU ARE UNTOUCHABLE? AIDS HAS NO FACE NINJA. IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU WILL NOT DO RIGHT BY WENDY AND HONOR YOUR VOWS THAT YOU WILL BE MAKING IN FRONT OF GOD YOU NEED TO LEAVE HER ALONE AND GO ON LIVING YOUR NASTY LIFE. LET THE WOMAN LIVE A PEACEFUL LIFE WITH HER CHILDREN, HER SISTER, AND HER FAMILY. IT IS OBVIOUS THAT YOU ARE A HOME WRECKER ALSO. ARE YOU GOING TO BE A FATHER TO WENDY'S TWO CHILDREN AND THE REST OF THE 50 KIDS AND GRANDCHILDREN THAT YOU HAVE? WHAT ARE YOUR REAL INTENTIONS TOWARDS WENDY? IN WHAT WAY ARE YOU PLANNING TO ENHANCE HER LIFE? I THINK THAT YOU WILL BE MORE OF A HINDERANCE AND A PERMANENT OBSTACLE IN HER LIFE.YOUR ONLY INTENTIONS IS TO "BLIGHTED HER BRIGHT FUTURE." YOU ARE JUST LIKE SOME NASTY JAMAICAN MAN WHOSE ONLY PURPOSE IS TO REDUCE GOOD VIRTUOUS WOMEN TO NOTHING LIKE A FUC**** FRACTION. NOTHING BUT DE GOOD SALVATION LAST FOREVER, AND TRUST ME NINJA YOU ARE NOT SALVATION.
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Posted by: slakka
on July 18, 2006 12:19 PM
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OH, BY THE WAY NINJA, DAT GUN PAN TEETH,BIG GUN DAN GORGAN SHI*** IS SO FUC********G OLD AND TIRED NOW. I AM ACTUALLY YAWNING READING YOUR SHI***. ARE YOU TAKING CARE OF ALL THE KIDS THAT YOU HAVE FATHERED? POST ANOTHER COMMENT SPECIFICALLY EXPLAINING WHAT KIND OF FATHER YOU ARE AND WHAT ARE YOUR INTENTIONS TOWARDS WENDY. I AM SO NOT RESPECTING YOU RIGHT NOW. YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF!!! YOU DIRTY NASTY, ROTTEN SCOUNDREL YOU!
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Posted by: muffy
on July 19, 2006 01:40 PM
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Slakka, Why are you so upset with Ninja? Are you one of the baby mama's? Wow you are spitting so much venom on the "Gorgon". At the end of the day it's all up to Wendy. Not endorsong what she has done and is planning to do, however, do not blame Brother Desmond. He puts his intentions out there and Wendy accepted. Therefore, is it not Wendy that puts herself in this position; not Bro. Des. Advise for Wendy: Do not allow your body to rule your mind. do what is morally right and end this farce. When you can get another man you can not get another family. To Bro. Des.: Love your songs for years continue doing rude boy songs and please do not put WEndy in the position to choose between you or family. Accept that the meat was good while it lasted and find someone that does not have all these complications and attachements to your former life.
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Posted by: maria
on July 19, 2006 08:07 PM
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Is it true that this man have 50 children.!!!!!!!!!!!1
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Posted by: fitness
on July 20, 2006 11:55 AM
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leave people business alone, and mine your own.
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Posted by: b
on July 20, 2006 10:52 PM
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oH nINJA mAN IS NOT A GOOD MATE TO HAVE! IF I WERE WENDY I WOULD RUN! He is a crazy man that will only bring her trouble! if she got him off drugs good, but leave, go w/ ur family, especially ur kids!
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Posted by: slakka
on July 21, 2006 07:00 AM
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HEY MUFFY, WHAT'S UP? NO DEAR I AM NOT ONE OF NINJA'S BABY MAMAS.THANK GOD I DON'T WRAP UP WITH DUTTY BUNGLE.MY GRANDMOTHER ALWAYS SAY IF YUH LAY DOWN WITH DOGS YUH GET UP WITH FLEAS. GREAT ADVICE THAT YOU GAVE TO THE CONFUSED PEOPLE.NUFF RESPECT.
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Posted by: kay
on July 22, 2006 09:13 PM
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i would like to say to wendy that this should't be too hard for you to choose between your family and ninjaman.you know when you can replace ninja with another man you can't do the same with family.search your heart deep down.are you really in love with this man or do you just feel sorry for him.then again there is the issue of promiscuity.do you really not care about picking up some std's,namely A.I.D.S.it's your decision though Wendy.please make the right one.
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Posted by: YonKalonji
on July 26, 2006 12:05 PM
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Big up Slakka. You make so much sense, very articlate, and intelligent. Ninja, mi rate some a him lyrics, but for the way he lives his actual life, no rating fi him. Well what is portrayed of his life that is. It's sad that in a discussion, the first thing he(if it was actually Ninjaman) retorts to is a gun. Why so violent? Noone is able to debate, or put their feelings, and thoughts across in words anymore?
Wendy *shakes head*, think about your children, and your soul.
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Posted by: *Sweet*
on July 27, 2006 02:30 PM
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All some of you do is criticize. Got unu nose in people bizniz and nah mind unu own. Ninja Man is a human being, we all are. Why dem cyber badman come pon di net a call di man "nasty dutty scoundrel" Wha dat fa? How you a go dictate to a man/woman how fi live dem life? A God alone fi judge. Some of you need to take a little time and reflect on ur own lives-- hold a meditation and let go di negativity plzzz...
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Posted by: Christine in England
on September 25, 2006 06:50 AM
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I AGREE WITH FITNEES LEAVE PEOPLE BUSINESS AND MIND YOUR OWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted by: Kakapa
on December 8, 2006 05:17 AM
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Pon some Southern Afrikan Culture a man is allowed fi marry him wife sista if de older dead, caan make babies, or sometimes becomes a concubine if de older is big wid a baby.
Me don unnerstand wid your ways but let nature take its course.
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Posted by: FULLA
on December 12, 2006 09:37 AM
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NINJAMAN A DI MAN YOU INA LOVE GO ON MAKE LIFE. U A DI BIG MAN A SHE MAKE U FEEL GOOD A SHE TAKE CARE A U WHEN NOTHING NEVER AGAWN FI U MAKE SHE FEEL BETTEA NU WATCH NU FACE
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Posted by: dis-interested
on January 5, 2007 01:50 PM
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I logged on to da site to remedy a bit of home-sickness but I am now feeling more sick. I do agree with others about leaving what dont concern you alone. Small minds talk about people etc.
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Posted by: jouni
on March 1, 2007 06:50 AM
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